First Gay Encounter - What Should I Do (what Made Yours Good)

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im a 40 year divorcee with no gay sexual experience - like never even kissed a guy. Ive been camming w this older built muscle daddy and really clicked with him. Hes been really nice, hes buff as fuck, and hes allowed me to go really slow with him. Hes the first and only guy ive cammed face to face with. Anyway we finally decided to meet at a hotel in a few weeks. Ive already told him my boundaries and he seems really excited, I am too, I also have no idea what to do so instead of asking a million questions:
How was your first "casual meetup / hookup"?
What made it hot?
What do you wish you did different?
Also I dont know if party favors are appropriate conversation so dm your suggestions to me
 

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Most important thing is to be safe and calm. Everything else comes along. It is unusuall in first but you will get over it verry fast. The chemistry and sexual tension are the driving force of making it hot. It is same as str8 but he has dick.
I think it is better to not use party favors because it is your first time with him. I pearsonally wouldn’t meet with I guy who wants it
 

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im a 40 year divorcee with no gay sexual experience - like never even kissed a guy. Ive been camming w this older built muscle daddy and really clicked with him. Hes been really nice, hes buff as fuck, and hes allowed me to go really slow with him. Hes the first and only guy ive cammed face to face with. Anyway we finally decided to meet at a hotel in a few weeks. Ive already told him my boundaries and he seems really excited, I am too, I also have no idea what to do so instead of asking a million questions:
How was your first "casual meetup / hookup"?
What made it hot?
What do you wish you did different?
Also I dont know if party favors are appropriate conversation so dm your suggestions to me

You sound like you are covering all the critical areas - you've been honest about your experiences and talked about limits. Be sure and have plenty of a lube you like with you - its easy to forget - condoms if you are going to want to use them. I. would say plan on undressing together and exploring each other. Kissing and touching start building a comfort level and just go from there. Don't try to take too much too fast in your mouth or backside - go at a comfortable pace to get used to the new sensations in size, taste and firmness. Watch the teeth and don't be afraid to say what ever is on your mind. Beyond that I would not overthink it or over plan it. First time jitters may take a few minutes to pass, but be calm and trust yourself and your partner. Good luck.
 
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Most important thing is to be safe and calm. Everything else comes along. It is unusuall in first but you will get over it verry fast. The chemistry and sexual tension are the driving force of making it hot. It is same as str8 but he has dick.
I think it is better to not use party favors because it is your first time with him. I pearsonally wouldn’t meet with I guy who wants it
i feel very safe with this guy, i was (and still am) terrified of showing face while camming. since i show my face i can make videos of me in the shower, walking around my house naked, fuck its so hot
 
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