First impression.

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  1. Alexander the 8

    Alexander the 8 Well-Known Member

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    Ladies, or who ever wishes to post.

    On first meeting someone, whether just a casual meeting or someone you go onto be friends with.

    What is the thing you notice first or look for first?

    And, how many of you are totally taken only by a sexual feature/attraction in the person?

    Or, how many need to get to know the person first before even contemplating a sexual friendship?
     
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    face! hair! hands! smile!
     
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    After the initial hello, I look for eye contact. Then at teeth. Everything else happens depending on those two's results.
     
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    Hands,teeth,hair,smile and then height


    Smell and shoes come closely though


    For a sexual thing then the above plus the tummy/chest **phew!**
     
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    Notice - height. It's the sort of thing you'd pick up on even before they're facing you.

    Look for - eye contact, smile, voice, posture, build.

    With very rare exception I'd need to get to know the person before considering sex.
     
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    Eyes that sparkle...then the way they move either walking or dancing. Something about that tells me they are confident, agile, strong...all the good stuff!
     
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    Eye contact is key, it sets the whole conversation moving. A nice smile...shoulders, they indicate confidence in who you are. As the conversation progresses and I've determined you are not a total player/idiot, then I'll take a gander at your chest, abs and hips...mmmm, I love men's hips...
     
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