First Interracial experience of any kind

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Today was the first time I made out with anyone outside my race. Felt odd for about 15 seconds and after that I was totally fine with it. I think it was more the feeling of "what would my family think." I figure it's my life not theirs, I'm going to enjoy my time this afternoon.

But I had a nice time and no sex. This man only wants friends with benefits and I haven't decided that I am ready for that.
 

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Well there is a whole world out there and it is good to have new experiences. Please never use the "what would my family think?"line in front of someone though - I have had that more than once and got up, got dressed and left!

Peace and love

Del
 

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I would have never said that outloud are you kidding me???? I have a bunch of racist people in my family. This man and I have already discussed that, he said he is pretty use to it. He dates only white women and has for years. But I would never be that insensitive!
 

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Hey, tripod...sounds like someone has a "blacks on blondes" fetish and wants the scoop!:smile: (I'm just in playful TGIF mood, big guy!)
DeeDeexxxx

LOL, not me. He approached me months ago on another website. I did a lot of checking up on him before I felt comfortable enough to meet him. Nice thing is he is a police officer and it was easy to verify who he was!
 

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LOL, not me. He approached me months ago on another website. I did a lot of checking up on him before I felt comfortable enough to meet him. Nice thing is he is a police officer and it was easy to verify who he was!

Please don't misunderstand me. No racist intent at all. I think it's hot.
 

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I actually LOVE interacial porn... HOT, HOT, HOT!!!!! You know me sooo well DeeDee!!!!!! You ROCK!!!!!!
 

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I actually LOVE interacial porn... HOT, HOT, HOT!!!!! You know me sooo well DeeDee!!!!!! You ROCK!!!!!!

You and my hubby! :wink: TGIF, everyone!!!! (Can't wait to hit the dance floors tonight!

DeeDee xxxxxx

Oops! Hubby didn't log out! Oh, well...love looking at his bod!
 

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I don't climax easily (at all) with straight intercourse, really. There is always some improvisational work involved. I'll only say that one of the few times I did have a hands-free, raging orgasm during intercourse happened to be with a gentleman of color. Kudos to him! - HOWEVER - I do NOT believe that size or the particular color/race of my partner had ANYTHING to do with it. Perhaps ethnicity is an element in a romantic encounter, as much as one's surroundings, the particular wine, the mood - but it's all about being human and the connections that occurr that make for unusually good sexual experience. I understand that some people have a fetish for this kind of interracial thing. But fetishes are not really true connections to others on a personal level. I don't judge them, they may have their place if in a healthy context. Healthy meaning: leading to a deeper connection between two caring human beings. Dunno. I'm not a psychologist. Just opinionated I guess! :rolleyes:
 

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I agree. For a while I was afraid to bring home someone of the opposite race but as i got older (only 25) i realized that its not about their race, it is about that person. As long as i ma comfortable with that person thats all that it takes. Sadly, I have not had any type of real interactions with a girl of the opposite race. Not because I dont want to but because time has not permitted me to encounter any race. But It is something that i will not allow myself to be blind to anymore.
 

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I don't climax easily (at all) with straight intercourse, really. There is always some improvisational work involved. I'll only say that one of the few times I did have a hands-free, raging orgasm during intercourse happened to be with a gentleman of color. Kudos to him! - HOWEVER - I do NOT believe that size or the particular color/race of my partner had ANYTHING to do with it. Perhaps ethnicity is an element in a romantic encounter, as much as one's surroundings, the particular wine, the mood - ]

Your post is incredibly insightful. I must admit that I think I would find it exciting to go out with someone from another race. However, I don't think it would be the size of his penis that would excite me. It's just something I have not done in a while (since in my 20's) and I think it would be very sexy as long as he met my particular criteria.

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