First large experience?

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  1. jimmenycricket

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    At the risk of being called lame and other rudeness, I was wondering if any ladies would like to share their first large experience?
     
  2. SurferGirlCA

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    You're less likely to be called lame than you are lazy, since this is an evergreen topic for discussion in this forum. I'm guessing you won't have to look back that far in the archives to find some responses... until maybe some new members want to chime in.
     
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    I'm Def lazy.
     
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    well im gay, but my first large experience was my current boyfriend of 3yr. i wasnt able to choke it all down, and infuriated i decided to make it my summer goal to be able to deep throat him. Now i can, tears for days :''')
     
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    Actually, to my amazement, I just searched and found not a thread to match my question. If you could point me to one this would me wonderful. Im still lazy though. and thanks to the gay guy.
     
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    Lazy guys suck. But then, so does the search feature on this site. I recommend you go to Google, type in LPSG and then whatever is it you want. I always search this site from Google. Always.

    1 Admittedly, this isn't exactly what you're looking for, but it's relevant to others who may find your thread an be curious.

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    This is EXACTLY what you're looking for.

    3 So is this, and it's newer.

    And I stopped looking. Because if you don't care, I don't care. As you will find, some of the women here are suspicious of threads like these, and reluctant to tell random posters with no real history here anything that might be titillating. Those women (and I am among them) figure if you want to get off, go fuck yourself, but don't expect help. Harsh, but honest.
     
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  8. B_penispenispenis37

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    That is true Enid, but it is full of male bravado and exaggeration like most other men's threads here. I'd love to get a woman's perspective on it.
     
  9. dolfette

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    click on the number of replies.
    a box pops up listing all those who posted in that thread.
    click the women's names to read their posts.
     
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    And how am I supposed to know who the women are? It is just a list of names. Thanks for not being obtuse.


    I didn't see AE's links up there. Thanks for those, just what the OP was looking for, although the threads are old and short.

    To further AE's tip if you type in "site:LPSG.org" it will show only stuff on lpsg.org that matches what you are looking for as opposed to anything that has the letters lpsg in it as well.

    To attempt to further discussion here, can a woman explain the "being stretched" feeling? In my experience some women find pleasure in this, but others find it too painful? Are they both talking about the same feeling? Is it a pain that you just have to learn to love if you want to enjoy it? You see in pornos with very large guys the women often wince and moan until eventually VOILA, it fits enough, then its mainly just moans. Obviously this isn't the case for every penis and vagina combination (and also, porn is often not real), but I'm just trying to get some real perspective.
     
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    For me, the feeling of stretch through girth or length has always been pleasurable. However, even when I feel discomfort, it's more of a "hurts so good" feeling. In other words, even if overwhelmed by size the first time, I've always gotten back on the bike for another ride.
     
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    i am having a hard time grasping your question, but i'll try to answer. i would say they are not describing the same feeling. if one is saying it hurts her and the other is saying it feels good, it's not the same feeling/sensation. however, we can assume the actual physical stimulation is the same......if we are talking about the same penis stimulating two different women, that is.

    i guess that i like a wee bit of stretch, but just up to a point. for instance, i purchased a dildo with 7 inches of girth a year or two ago. i used it once, and not successfully. it is too much and i do not like it. i don't think there's any learning to love that.


    thanks doll! *kisses*
     
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    Hey thanks for the answers. I really appreciate it. The two posts in a row really go to show how it is different for every woman.

    For example, Enid, you describe the sensation as predominantly pain, but exotikittie describes it as a 'hurts so good' that it doesn't stop her. It seems like you are both referring to the stretching feeling.

    Do you think it comes down to different physicality's or just past experience and what you learned to like? For example, I grew up masturbating without lube and I'm circumcised, some men might say I'm crazy, but I like it.

    Or do you think that the different sex hormone levels in women result in different comfort levels when it comes to stretching? I'm under the impression one of the major female sex hormones 'comforts' the body when the vagina is stretching. I put comfort in quotes because it is all relative. And of course different vaginas.

    I was curious because I know a girl who would see porn cocks and be scared of them. This always seemed crazy to me as a guy who could appreciate a nice looking cock. Especially considering that she had an accommodating vagina. She said she had a willingness to cross that bridge when she got to it, but not any bit sooner.

    My idea was to get an extender, one for length and another for girth and surprise her one night (not with both at the same time) while she was tied down and blindfolded. I wouldn't be forceful at all and I would take it at her pace. Do you think it is a good idea or should I let her just enjoy my cock the way it is? Obviously I'd love to be the guy that could give her that first thrill (if she liked it).

    She isn't interested in dildos because they are just rubber penis-like things. She wants a guy she can grab and like (as a person). So I figured an extender with me would get most of the way there, even though I imagine it can't compete with the real thing.

    I want to cross that bridge because we are both interested in group sex, mmf and mff and possibly more. She has yet to have a positive experience with a big cock, but if we keep looking around for other people, it is bound to happen. So maybe I can see that twinkle in her eyes before some other lucky guy?

    If I asked in a non-women's issue thread all the guys would say yes, so I'm trying to get some actual perspective. I'd ask her, but it would ruin the surprise. Yes I realize this is pretty neurotic.
     
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    been there, done that - imo, real cock is best. http://www.lpsg.org/235959-humbled-by-penis-extension-7.html#post3503296

    The man or woman makes the twinkle, not the equipment. That said as a woman who has fucked a guy just because he had a massive cock, but would not have bothered had he not also been the awesomest as a dude.
     
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    If she has said this:


    Why on earth would you think it is a good idea to do this:

    She has told you how she feels about bigger. Try giving her a bit of respect.


    It is NOT 'bound to happen'. Some women don't like big cocks. Period.
     
  17. dolfette

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    i agree, sub. that's just being a disrespectful git.

    no means no.
    it doesn't mean ''i'm just a silly woman so i don't know what i really want'', or ''needle me into it please'', or ''trick me into it please''.
    it means no.
    and it stays meaning no until she says yes.

    if the guy likes big cock so much, why doesn't he take it himself :rolleyes:
     
  18. B_penispenispenis37

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    It is bound to happen, she never said never, just that she was not going to force the issue. If we found a dude we both liked and he had a big cock, she would not have an issue. She'd probably even be excited although nervous. The two things I said don't preclude each other. I'm wondering if maybe I should move that bridge up a little sooner so she can cross it with me. No one is forcing anyone into anything.

    As for the twinkle exotikittie, I was kinda being facetious. She already twinkles in her eye with me, I was really referring to the elements of her first large penis experience. The extra gasps and moans, the cream and whatnot (or also the bad things that can happen). A lot of that just is from porn so it may not really apply. I dunno. The idea that if there was extra special pleasure I'd want to give it to her just so I don't have to sit there flabbergasted and amazed when we involve another dude. Heck, that might happen even if I did get to it first :tongue:

    I do appreciate your thoughts on the matter, though. The thread you linked was where I first got the idea. And I totally get what you are saying about it being floppy and not real and not really feeling the connection. I was hoping I could find one that didn't have a lot of those problems!

    I had a bathmate which we used a couple of times, at first she acted like she didn't notice a difference but it did make me noticeably thicker. However, the other day she mentioned how she liked it, it was me with my technique but just felt a little different. Not as an every day, "oh I need the extra thickness" feeling. She compared it to how her breasts change over the month and years, sometimes firmer sometimes softer. Sometimes bigger sometimes smaller. I love them anyway they come :biggrin1: So that combined with the thread you linked made me think "maybe she would like it if I could give her a little more."

    I know this delved into "your penis is not a women's issue territory" so I'll cut out. Thanks for the thoughts! :redface:
     
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    Wow, its like you are trolling me. I would feel honored - if you came off as someone who read what I wrote. Instead its kinda annoying to have to repeat myself.

    First off, she didn't say no I never want to try a big cock I hate big cocks big cocks no. She said "one day". If she went on a date with a dude and he had a big one and they were going to do it, she would try. If it hurt she would stop. What I would want to do with her is not really different from that. If you think that I shouldn't do it while she is strapped down and blindfolded (she still totally has the ability to protest anyway) then that is a valid criticism and you should say that and not imply a million things besides it.

    Secondly, what makes you think me taking a big cock isn't on the table as well? I'm under the impression that it would not be a "Women's Issue." Thanks though!

    :rolleyes:
     
  20. dolfette

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    what...is this the second thread we've ever spoken in? that's certainly a trolling pattern. you're right, i must be obsessed with you to post an opinion on your posts in two whole threads. that's two of your opinions i had an opinion on. that's just scary! it might be a global conspiracy. the sky might fall. your very life might be in danger. civilisation as we know it may fall down around your ears. pm the mods immediately!!

    alternatively, you might just be being a twat again?
    damn that pesky woman having opinions that go against yours!
     
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