My girlfriend of 2 years has never in her life had an orgasm. She enjoys vibrators, but can never orgasm from them. They make her tense up her entire body, perhaps building up to something, but then it all releases and she says the sensation dissipates. We have great sex, but she occasionally gets frustrated by her inability to orgasm. I guess I'm looking for suggestions on anything that might help. I try not to make sex a search for the elusive O because then it becomes tedious and frustrating.
I thought what I'd do is list some things she likes, and perhaps people out there will have insight into what combinations of things, or maybe new stuff, would be a good idea.
Likes:
getting railed, really hard
the idea of me using her body
a vibrator on the clit during sex, or before sex
getting fingered, but lately the vibrator takes precedence
being dominated
the occasional finger in the ass during sex
Anyone out there with similar experiences or some kind of insight? It's appreciated
I thought what I'd do is list some things she likes, and perhaps people out there will have insight into what combinations of things, or maybe new stuff, would be a good idea.
Likes:
getting railed, really hard
the idea of me using her body
a vibrator on the clit during sex, or before sex
getting fingered, but lately the vibrator takes precedence
being dominated
the occasional finger in the ass during sex
Anyone out there with similar experiences or some kind of insight? It's appreciated