I have similar body hair to you, and shaving too much would be a big mistake. You end up looking like a freak when you do. I won't argue with how much shaving makes your dong look larger. I trim the hair short, and shave about 1/4 to 1/2 an inch around my shaft, and on the top side i shave a little higher. Its cheap but that higher shaved area above gives the illusion of some extra length while flacid. Give it a shot, i think you would be pleased.