I'm sure that this has been covered before, but I couldn't find it in a search so please, be gentle. I was wondering about the first time a partner of yours made note of your size. How they handled it, how you handled it and more specifically what the first reactions were. I never thought of myself as big because the main thing back then was length (6.5 - 7") but ever since girth has come out (7") I am re-evaluating and thinking of talking about it with my next partner. The last girl I was with was very uncomfortable the first time and had to stop on many other occasions (yes, I now know the value of lube). I've found talks about length discussed here, but haven't really found something about girth. Any help is appreciated. Thanks in advance.