first sex exp. with a guy?

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  1. prince_will

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    how was it for you guys?
    i know that i'm afraid to venture out there.
    how was it intiatied?
    how did it go for you?
    even though most of the time, guys get me off, i'm still reluctant to have sex with one (even though i'd love to have a passionate kiss and then we go at it roughly, sweaty and---well, you get my drift.)
     
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    I'm in the same boat. Still waiting for it to happen...

    Slamdunk_dude
     
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    Yeah well, the first time I was with a guy, me and this chick and another guy fell asleep drunk in the same bed. I knew he was gay and attracted to me, and he was good looking, so when he woke me up errr touching me I sort of expected it. Honestly I knew things were gonna go in that direction; both of them were interested in me, but I was sort of more interested in the guy cuz I'd never done that before. As you can imagine, it's hard to fuck a guy without some planning in advance, but we looked around in her parents house (this was back in highschool mind you) and found something that could, uhhh, pass for lubrication. I mean this was after the usual shit, oral and all that. It was quite an experience. I was all trying to be gentle on him cuz I wasn't really that knowledgable about, you know, ass fucking, but he clearly wanted it harder. I just couldn't believe I was fucking him as hard as I'd fuck a girl, especially considering that most girls take a while to get used to me. Damn! Just thinking about it kind of turns me on, though it was about ten years ago now. It's funny: my first time with a man--I was in the dominant position but I think I learned a lot from him!
     
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    Same here with the Original Poster and Slamdunk.

    Not happened yet. My penis only has experience with two people very dear to me - Mr Right, and Mr Left. :tongue:
     
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    Tsk, I'd give my right arm to be ambidextrous. :rolleyes:
     
  6. SomeGuyOverThere

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    I'm not ambidexterous, but how difficult is it to grab then rub up and down? :tongue:

    Usually I whack off with both hands, not one or the other. :wink:
     
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    You guys that want exploring of the male body but are not ready to fuck...should not fuck then. You can always have an actual date and get to know someone...kiss...have mutual petting session...grow to the point of a fuck. It is not all or nothing. Take your time. Just be up front with who ever you are with and tell them where you are at.
     
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    That's nott he problem, CUBE, the problem is finding somebody to begin with! :tongue:
     
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    I'm not sure what you're calling a first time, man. I mean, I was about 13 when a buddy of mine and I did the mutual J/O thing that eventually led to his suckin' me off. Is that what you're taling about? I was in college before I had anything that was more than "I'll show if you do." Then it was a buddy of mine that was mostly mutual BJ's. I liked receiving but didn't get off on giving 'em at all. In college I hit a number of tea rooms where I was sucked off by lots of different guys, and once had a dude ride my cock under a bathroom stall--no kissing, no hugging, no anything but a willing recipient for my hard-on. Is that what you're qualifiying as "having sex" or are you talking about something else?
     
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    If you're gonna go with my VERY first experience with a guy it'd be when I was still just a kid. My grandma would send me across the street to her friend's house sometimes and she had a grandson my age. If we were there alone he'd "make me" suck his cock. All he really did was tell me to, possibly he threatened to beat me up or something I don't remember the details. All I really remember is I didn't like him or his cock much at all.

    Next (and first REAL) experience. An older guy I met online through a personal ad on BulkMale.com. So as you can imagine he was a big chubby guy. He picked me up and took me to a hotel. We showered seperately and then I sucked him, he sucked me. He wanted a back rub and during it he fell asleep. By the time he woke up I wanted to go home so that was the end of that.
     
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    My best buddy & me jerked off when we were kids.......does that count?
     
  12. chicagosam

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    Prince Will—I’ve been thinking about what you wrote. I’d like to say “go and fuck your brains out,” but I should probably play responsible adult seeing as you seem concerned about taking this step in your life. And that is a great quality for you to have. You're being wise. Here's my advice:

    Make sure you are emotionally ready to do this.

    My one and only gay experience was when I was nineteen and in college. I was chaperoning with a guy that I really admired and was someone I wanted as a friend. We were in charge of chaperoning an overnight stay in a monastery for a bunch of high school guys. After we got them to sleep, we were in a room together. After a lot of guy talk, checking out porn mags, the usual, we went to sleep. As we were talking in the dark, he started talking about sex with guys. The next thing I knew, he was taking off my underwear and blowing me. And that's how it started, and progressed from there. Having never had sex before, this being someone I liked, being curious, and just plain freaked out, I let it all happen. After it was over, I waited until he was asleep, took a shower, and went and slept in another room. Having been raised in a strict religious household, and having been brainwashed with all the usual religious dogma about homosexuality, I was really traumatized by the experience. Add to that the fact that I was in a monastery dorm, I expected at any moment that I would be struck by lightning, sent to Hell, reviled by the world, everyone would know and hate me, and I would be the scourge of mankind. That’s a lot of guilt! And that is how I went through the next day. That night we were back together in the room and I decided to give it a second chance to see if this was how my life was going to be from now on. I figured I was spoiled goods now anyway, and it didn’t matter—all of the above would be happening soon—I was on my way to eternal damnation. The funny thing was, the sex wasn’t really that great, and I told him that I would never do this again. For a month after, he kept asking me for another stand, but I refused. I finallly said yes with the thought there wouldn’t be any women who would want me now either. (Watching BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN reminded me of this experience: “This is a one time thing.” “It’s nobody’s business but ours.” “I ain’t queer.” “Neither am I.” I guess that movie was to close for comfort—lived the whole thing. Hello, my name is Ennis!) After a couple months of on-again off-again, I ended it. I was too overwhelming. It really didn’t do anything for me and, in retrospect, he wasn’t very good. (I was always trying to please him and he never could get me off. Pat on the back for me here: I may have been a pretty damn good lover because he wasn't complaining!) That ended my experience with same sex relationships. Lots of guilt, lots of shame, lots of regrets. So, what should have been a great experience for me, was a really messed up experience by the situation I was in. It sure screwed me up as young man. But that’s me at nineteen. I wasn't ready.

    Where am I today? I will love and be with whom I choose. I no longer buy into the guilt trip brought on by the religious wrong when they use their Battle Cry from Leviticus to justify hate. (That verse has probably been translated wrong and they will only believe what they want to believe anyway.) I must also say in defense of the religious community who are in the majority, that I am the recipient of a lot of care and kindness from truly good people who helped me get past this, and who are inclusive of all people. Am I a religious person? No. Would I be with a guy again? I had to think about this one. So here goes: If someone truly cared about me, had my best interests at heart, really loved me, and wanted the best for me, I would be a fool not to consider it. In all fairness, I have the same expectations for women. OK, so what kind of guy, you might query? If I were to be with a guy, I want to be with . . . a guy—tall, masculine, with a wicked sense of humor. (I would probably be a Jack now!) And seeing as I am always working, that probably has a snowball's chance in hell of happening with anyone!

    So, my horny little neophyte, please make sure that you are truly ready for your first experience. And then, “go and fuck your brains out!” And make sure you wear a condom. I wish you a better first time than I had! :smile:
     
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    This is a great reminder. I started slowly with just receiving oral, some kissing, etc. It took me a LONG time before I was ready to do a guy and even longer before I let a guy do me.

    @ chicagosam--great advice-Thanks for taking the time to write that.
     
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    This is a great rule for sexual fun. Why rush things. The build up is the best part.
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    Also good advice. You don't need to go from 0 to 100 like I did. There'a a lot to be said for hugging and kissing, as opposed to having someone ram their dick up your ass on your first time. I do remember enjoying hugging and kissing—a lot!

    Thanks, Lex, for the validation. It took balls more than time to write that. It's something I never talk about, and rarely think about. Prince Will was posing an important question and it seemed the right time.

    But our focus here is Prince Will and others like him. Let's hope that when Prince Will is ready to step up to the plate, he hits the ball out of the park and scores a huge homerun! And it takes him years to wipe the smile off his face. :smile:
     
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    Hey, I am so glad that someone brought up this topic.
    The thing is, I had my first sex expiriences with guys and I still have from time to time. On the other hand, I do not get an orgasm from penetrating a guy, it is just the whole experience - the "forbidden" atmosphere, the whole touch and feel.
     
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    *Would like to be in a "forbidden" atmosphere with Wolfy* :wink:
     
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    Hello, my first experience whit a guy has been when i was 17 years old (now i am almost 23). I had gay fantasies, and i was curios to try some experiences. I met then this guy and it has been a fantastic experience (he was ten years older than me, whit a good body and a nice face, but above all a very great cock). Since that time, i discovered that i can't live whitout men although i like females too, and that whit men i am the bottom one. On the bed i do to men the same things that girls does to me, if you understood what i mean... My only regret? To haven't continued to meet him, really he was the perfect stud for me.
     
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    Check out http://www.w202.com/ - under stories, there are "real life?" experiences of first times.
     
  20. prince_will

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    wow...i'm just looking at this thread again, and i thought this was good enough for a bump. BUMP! i will always be grateful for the advice from this thread.
     
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