first sex exp. with a guy?

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I waited until I was 17 before having any sexual activity (other than JO). By the time I was finally ready, it was just a question of grabbing the first opportunity.

He was a guy I worked with in his mid-40s. I remember him being very charismatic, though in hindsight I have always wondered why. He was extremely average, except that he did have a very well-maintained body.

He came twice, I didn't cum at all. We did oral, JO and I tried to get fucked, but it didn't happen as I found it incredibly painful. He was a bisexual top and wouldn't even consider letting me return the favor.

I saw him perhaps a half-dozen times before moving on to much better guys.
 

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I met Cary through a personal ad. We were friends for over two months before we did the deed.

When we did...we did it on my sister's sofabed (I was housesitting). It was fun...even though he had a smallish dick that didn't fill me up the way I have grown to like.

We were friends for quite a few years...then lost touch with each other.

I learned fairly recently that Cary committed suicide not too long after he published his first book http://www.utppublishing.com/pubstore/prodimg/0802083420.jpg

I miss him :frown1:
 

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My first sex with a guy was on Sunday, so it's very fresh in my mind.

how was it for you guys?
i know that i'm afraid to venture out there.
how was it intiatied?
Met a guy through Gaydar.co.uk, chatted online, got on really well. Talked on the phone, still seemed a really great guy so we arranged to meet in public. That went well, it was as if we'd known each other for years rather than just a few days, so we arranged for him to come round to my place.

He came over, we chatted for a while, I wasn't sure what to do so eventually he just started kissing me and things went on from there.

how did it go for you?
It was great. He's younger than me but messed around with a cousin when he was a kid, so a little more experienced (not difficult). We sucked each other off and then just spent hours holding each other. Next time he comes over he wants me to fuck him.

even though most of the time, guys get me off, i'm still reluctant to have sex with one (even though i'd love to have a passionate kiss and then we go at it roughly, sweaty and---well, you get my drift.)
Find the right guy, don't just pick the first man you find, is my advice.
 

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First no touching experience was when i was abut 18, and a friend watched me jerk off. First touching was actually with an older cousin. He jerked me off in the shower. He seemed to know what he was doing...I suspect he had done it before.
 

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My chum and me sometimes jerk off in each bed, watching porno.
No skinship between he and me.
Dose it count?
 

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My first sex with a guy was on Sunday, so it's very fresh in my mind.


Met a guy through Gaydar.co.uk, chatted online, got on really well. Talked on the phone, still seemed a really great guy so we arranged to meet in public. That went well, it was as if we'd known each other for years rather than just a few days, so we arranged for him to come round to my place.

He came over, we chatted for a while, I wasn't sure what to do so eventually he just started kissing me and things went on from there.


It was great. He's younger than me but messed around with a cousin when he was a kid, so a little more experienced (not difficult). We sucked each other off and then just spent hours holding each other. Next time he comes over he wants me to fuck him.


Find the right guy, don't just pick the first man you find, is my advice.

Thanks for the advice. :smile:

now, here's another question,

has anybody ever regretted it?