First threesome (my girls first big cock)

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You obviously feel secure in your relationship with her to be unconcerned about the emotional bonding (i.e. love) that can develop between two people during sex (especially when there is already a physical attraction).

Sure, her boundaries about letting other guys fuck her may come down as a result, but be careful what you wish for.

Relationships are governed by all sorts of unconventional arrangements, so I guess yours is one of those. With you being excluded from the whole encounter, I still think you are inviting trouble, but good luck.

*scratches head*
 

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I tried it with my ex-wife. She needed something, and asked. I gave. I figured it was just as bad if she wanted to, but didn't fuck someone else, so I said hell with it, I'm secure.

She had fun, the infatuation was very obvious and strong between them. It was testing, and hurtful, but good in a way. We had a couple of threesomes with him (my life long freind). Like everything else, she tired of him and quit him. She was pretty upset at one point that I was not more jealous, and accused me of whoring her out during one of our threesomes. That had more to do with her as a person than the situation.

I was insecure on out the connection, and I suspected that he was well hung. He was sexy. It all turned out ok. Had nothing to do with me leaving her.
 

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She was pretty upset at one point that I was not more jealous, and accused me of whoring her out during one of our threesomes.
I have wondered if those same feelings might surface as an issue for MHTACH given that his girl is reluctant and needs coaxing just to warm up to the idea.

It is understandable if she asks why her own boyfriend is so eager that she fuck other guys, and why he has no apparent jealousy even when he is excluded from participating himself.
 

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I have wondered if those same feelings might surface as an issue for MHTACH given that his girl is reluctant and needs coaxing just to warm up to the idea.

It is understandable if she asks why her own boyfriend is so eager that she fuck other guys, and why he has no apparent jealousy even when he is excluded from participating himself.

Oh I'm jealous, I have feelings of anxiety too, but I don't dwell on them because i don't wantto consider backing out. And I havnt been excluded, I excluded myself to increase the likelihood of this being successful.
 

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Personally I don't understand this. What are you getting out of this? Obviously your girl is happy with what she has with you or she wouldn't be so hard to persuade. So this encounter is for your benefit. I just wonder what's in it for you?

do you understand the cuckold/hotwifing fantasy?
 

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do you understand the cuckold/hotwifing fantasy?
Nope ,nope I don't. But I do understand that part of that would be your girl would be into it and excited , and if we are talking cuckolding she would enjoy you being there watching her be serviced by a real man. From what you say I don't see that happening. Hope I'm wrong for your sake but if this happy I don't see it turning out welll. Good luck
 

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Nope ,nope I don't. But I do understand that part of that would be your girl would be into it and excited , and if we are talking cuckolding she would enjoy you being there watching her be serviced by a real man. From what you say I don't see that happening. Hope I'm wrong for your sake but if this happy I don't see it turning out welll. Good luck

thanks for your concern, but I think everything will work out great
 
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thanks for your concern, but I think everything will work out great

I'm glad to see you are not put off by those who don't understand. While I think most have good intentions, I feel that they are viewing your situ through their own desires/preferences. Seems a bit close minded.

Certainly you have to be thoughtful and take others' opinions into consideration for your benefit, but you seem to have a handle on what you want and your wife's wellbeing. She seems willing to accommodate, and hopefully will enjoy herself too.
 

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Bro, most of your messages keep on the same theme 'she doesnt care about size, wont make a difference, she is indifferent to big cocks'. It sounds like you are trying to convince yourself of this BS, the more you repeat it both you and readers will start believing it.
Ive been with too many women....many hundreds. I am still learning about them and some things they will not open up or reveal to us men. Especially if they feel that it will awaken an insecurity that will screw with your head and make her life miserable. U woukd struggle to find a women who is so indifferent, like you reitterate constantly, about big thick cocks. Either excited and love OR are afraid of hurting...but definitely not the 'she really thinks it wont make a difference' that is BS. She is excited and turned on by though of big cock, but coz your insecure about an not sure whether or not you will become jealous....she will never fully open up to you. Fancy that u telling the bull 'be quick no longer then 15 mins...so U dont get jealous...Goose...sorry
 

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tonights the night! I'm pretty excited, and nervous too, but its great to finally have it happen. We are going to the bar now, then she's gonna leave with him after a bit, she will come home after and tell me all about it while we have some fun.
 

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Well shes with him right now, no idea whats going on haha, I don't want her texting me updates while shes with him or anything, so ill know everything once she gets back. I don't think she will be out too much later, I probably will end up updating with what happened tomorrow, we have another rugby tournament tomorrow morning so I need to go to sleep after all the activities are done for the night.

Anyways I'm super nervous but really turned on thinking about what might be happening. I cant wait for her to tell me.
 

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Bro i may have gotten shit wrong or been a little tactless in my message...apologies and thumbs up for being a gentleman considering i could have articulated my thoughts in a positive constructive manner.
Glad that D day has arrived. I know that my nuts woukd be brewing with excitement if i was in your pisition right now. Hope her experience is what you both expect and helps you become even closer and improves your sex lives
 
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Well shes with him right now, no idea whats going on haha, I don't want her texting me updates while shes with him or anything, so ill know everything once she gets back. I don't think she will be out too much later, I probably will end up updating with what happened tomorrow, we have another rugby tournament tomorrow morning so I need to go to sleep after all the activities are done for the night.

Anyways I'm super nervous but really turned on thinking about what might be happening. I cant wait for her to tell me.
Wow. How was it? Hope all went well x
 
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Well Tach, I hope this was everything you wanted it to be. I also hope that you are happy. God knows you guys worked at this for quite some time. Update us when you can and know that we are cheering for you brother.
 

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hey everyone. I had a VERY long day and I'm exhausted, I don't think I will be able to describe what happened last night very well right now because I just walked in the door and I'm literally falling asleep, so I will wait until tomorrow, Ill just say that everything went smooth and we are all happy with the outcome, ill give details when I wake up.