I definitely would not be able to ask a friend to step in. We live in a very small town, and I just would rather find someone in a nearby city. And plus, none of my friends and hung well enough anyway. As far as meeting someone, I guess we would have to find someone online. Similar to how this thread is going.
First threesome (my girls first big cock)
- Thread starter MHTACH
- Start date
awesome story Jen. My girl is like similar to Kevin smalls. She is uninterested in large cocks but is open enough to try it, she is more interested by the act of doing something new, with a new partner. Thanks everyone for commenting on this thread, I was beginning to think no one even read it, the only comments and PM's I seemed to be getting for a while were the ones saying that this is a fantasy thread, which is really annoying, I try not to reply to them. It's really nice to read some posts about people who are interested in this sort of thing, and pretty cool to hear from some people who have had actual successful experiences. Hope to hear some more, and I will keep you all updated with how it turns out.
By the way Jen how was your first time with a big one? my girl doesn't think it will make a difference in how much pleasure she will get, do you think she is gonna be in for a surprise?
By the way Jen how was your first time with a big one? my girl doesn't think it will make a difference in how much pleasure she will get, do you think she is gonna be in for a surprise?
I've been following this since the beginning. And this is something that has really been a fantasy for me for a couple years now. And it's been quite awhile since I even mentioned this to my wife. I've been approaching this slowly and very cautiously, and basically been reading about other people's experiences for the past year for figure out how to approach this.
I felt bad for starting to clutter up your thread with my own thoughts and questions. I will continue to post though, seems like everyone is down for the added questions and experiences.
I felt bad for starting to clutter up your thread with my own thoughts and questions. I will continue to post though, seems like everyone is down for the added questions and experiences.
And I'd also like to add...Davey and MHTACH, you both are lucky men! Jen and M's lady are both smokin' hot!
Go ahead and post whatever you want, I don't mind. I actually appreciate the input.
pepinogrande
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You are right on- I have some wonderful, Buddies: but, i wish i knew you, too !
Jen, was there ever any emotional issues with this? With you or Davey? Having someone else touch places and induce pleasure in ways that your husband could not? This is something that I always envisioned as being a huge turn on, but so far that's only in my imagination and not yet in reality.
pepinogrande
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Interesting, that y
Interesting NiceTech that you are 100% Straight and I am almost 100% gay: and we see things almost exactly the same way !!"
I have had probably thousands of jerk-off sessions with guys in daily gym showers in dozens of countries over the years. Yet, I have finally met a buddy -- so wonderful-- that i would never ever want to subject him to any type of humiliation or competitiveness.
I think that that is probably where this man's wife is. Though admittedly she is coming to this from a younger age than i and without all the travels of the military and civilian world.
By the way, the wonderful friend i have finally found, is while he is a Latin Beauty ..he is not the Best HUNG . rather: he is the most WHOLESOME !
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I have a feeling that in the OP's case there is a significant age difference...and consequently a difference in needs.
But, I agree with you, NiceTech, that when we finally have something, something very very precious: in my case a wonderful young man who still says his prayers each night, who still is so very grateful to be in America, who still gives thanks to God that we found each other --as do I-- that when you have that: you never want to do anything but say, "Thank You, God" !
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Interesting NiceTech that you are 100% Straight and I am almost 100% gay: and we see things almost exactly the same way !!"
I have had probably thousands of jerk-off sessions with guys in daily gym showers in dozens of countries over the years. Yet, I have finally met a buddy -- so wonderful-- that i would never ever want to subject him to any type of humiliation or competitiveness.
I think that that is probably where this man's wife is. Though admittedly she is coming to this from a younger age than i and without all the travels of the military and civilian world.
By the way, the wonderful friend i have finally found, is while he is a Latin Beauty ..he is not the Best HUNG . rather: he is the most WHOLESOME !
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I have a feeling that in the OP's case there is a significant age difference...and consequently a difference in needs.
But, I agree with you, NiceTech, that when we finally have something, something very very precious: in my case a wonderful young man who still says his prayers each night, who still is so very grateful to be in America, who still gives thanks to God that we found each other --as do I-- that when you have that: you never want to do anything but say, "Thank You, God" !
A couple things meant to be helpful for the OP:
A tangent to make the point. I had a dry spell in me twenties. I was fortunate to have a wise friend that noted I was trying too hard. "Just live your life in public", he advised. What he meant is that he knew I liked running and reading. He advice was to start doing those things in public. Go to library instead of at home with a glass of wine all evening. Go to popular trail areas for my running. It makes it a win-win. I get to do what I enjoy while increasing my odds of meeting someone.
How about just taking your wonderfully open and engaging wife on overnight dates. You mentioned that being out of your immediate area makes things more relaxed for the two of you. So, start taking her out for a nice meal at large hotels... maybe a little dancing, et al, whatever you two like. There will be business men there. Maybe things will happen. So what if they, the mmf thing, doesn't? Well, you treated your 'lil gal to a great evening she deserves and likely had a randy time in the bed (your libido exploded by the time or two she was asked to dance).
I have nothing going for me that special. I am that barely over average at everything guy. Ave man in US is, what, about 5 10? Well, I am six feet if I completely straighten out and tip the measuring person a ten spot as an example. Yet, Mr. Nothing Special here has been fortunate enough to have my fair share of great and wild memories. They all happened organically. Well, one of mmf deals a little staged, forced. I took a long time girlfriend across the border to a male strip club. It was hilarious for me. One of guys was either attracted to my cute little minx and/or the stack of tens I had provided her so she could be generous with those catching her eye. That was a great night! As stated above, I am a runner. He, like many male strippers was very muscular and buff. Two very different body types for her that evening.
A tangent to make the point. I had a dry spell in me twenties. I was fortunate to have a wise friend that noted I was trying too hard. "Just live your life in public", he advised. What he meant is that he knew I liked running and reading. He advice was to start doing those things in public. Go to library instead of at home with a glass of wine all evening. Go to popular trail areas for my running. It makes it a win-win. I get to do what I enjoy while increasing my odds of meeting someone.
How about just taking your wonderfully open and engaging wife on overnight dates. You mentioned that being out of your immediate area makes things more relaxed for the two of you. So, start taking her out for a nice meal at large hotels... maybe a little dancing, et al, whatever you two like. There will be business men there. Maybe things will happen. So what if they, the mmf thing, doesn't? Well, you treated your 'lil gal to a great evening she deserves and likely had a randy time in the bed (your libido exploded by the time or two she was asked to dance).
I have nothing going for me that special. I am that barely over average at everything guy. Ave man in US is, what, about 5 10? Well, I am six feet if I completely straighten out and tip the measuring person a ten spot as an example. Yet, Mr. Nothing Special here has been fortunate enough to have my fair share of great and wild memories. They all happened organically. Well, one of mmf deals a little staged, forced. I took a long time girlfriend across the border to a male strip club. It was hilarious for me. One of guys was either attracted to my cute little minx and/or the stack of tens I had provided her so she could be generous with those catching her eye. That was a great night! As stated above, I am a runner. He, like many male strippers was very muscular and buff. Two very different body types for her that evening.
I can offer my story here, since it's similar. I had threesomes with my ex-gf, when we were still together. The threesomes were not a factor in why we broke up, in fact they might have been one of the better aspects of our relationship.
How it started was she went through my phone text messages (example of why we eventually broke up) and found texts I had exchanged with a guy that I had given a HJ to years back (I've explored, I enjoy touching big cocks, not sucking/fucking them). She started to ask me questions about it so I asked her about her past sexual experiences. Turned out the guy she was with before me had a really big cock, according to her recollection, and that got the subject going. I told her I had a fantasy to see a girl get fucked by a really big cock in person, and we had all the usual conversation points.
1) What if she falls for the guy.
2) What if she's scared or turned off by it.
3) What if my feelings change when it happens.
All discussed, debated, and settled. I wasn't worried about her falling for a guy over his cock, we established that it would end the instant she asked for it if she felt weird, and far from my feelings changing for the worse, my feelings for her increased substantially when she was fucking the other guy.
We actually used (or I should say I used) Craigslist and found a guy close to our age nearby. He was in decent shape, about 9 inches and pretty thick, and we agreed to meet up and chat with him at his place. The first time we went there the conversation started pretty tame, and generic, about as naughty as it was was to ask "so have you done this kind of thing a lot" etc. Eventually I just threw it down and said "So, are we going to the bedroom or what?" We did, and she actually was pretty comfortable or at least willing, and we did it. It was hot, in fact I had to avoid touching myself or I would have cum almost instantly from the sight of the events before me.
We wound up doing it again with this guy, who was a nice intelligent educated guy, and then I found another post from a guy on CL and we wound up doing it with him 3 times.
The second guy was larger than the first guy, we actually measured him at 10 inches with a tailors tape, and very thick and super hard. A bit older, but enormous, and also intelligent and tidy, with his own house and meticulously kept vegetable gardens.
She enjoyed the fucking, we took pics and videos, and even asked from time to time "So how's so and so been lately", which was my signal to shoot them a text and see if they were up for another go. We eventually broke up, for reasons unrelated, and she asked me to delete everything and give her a copy on a flash drive, which I did.
New GF is much sexier, extremely hot, but she's not willing to go into threesome territory. She says once a man fucks her she can't go back, she won't be in love with me anymore. I have argued, discussed, debated, but ultimately accepted that she is sure of her feelings so I've dropped the subject.
Anyway, I was lucky to experience one of my biggest fantasies, and I wish you luck in your pursuit of yours. I would say one thing that I notice is that your wife wanting to talk to the guys to try to be attracted to them seems to be counter-intuitive to me. If it's about a big cock experience, then the kind of attraction you get from talking to someone should be secondary. That's relationship building material, and you're not after a relationship with the guy, you're after his cock. If she waits until she finds someone she has things in common with and could find herself attracted to emotionally, that seems to be a more dangerous proposition than simply the physical big cock fantasy you're actually after.
Good luck, keep us updated, and if you ever come to Austin, TX, I can introduce you to 3-4 guys who have 9+ and experience with threesomes. =]
How it started was she went through my phone text messages (example of why we eventually broke up) and found texts I had exchanged with a guy that I had given a HJ to years back (I've explored, I enjoy touching big cocks, not sucking/fucking them). She started to ask me questions about it so I asked her about her past sexual experiences. Turned out the guy she was with before me had a really big cock, according to her recollection, and that got the subject going. I told her I had a fantasy to see a girl get fucked by a really big cock in person, and we had all the usual conversation points.
1) What if she falls for the guy.
2) What if she's scared or turned off by it.
3) What if my feelings change when it happens.
All discussed, debated, and settled. I wasn't worried about her falling for a guy over his cock, we established that it would end the instant she asked for it if she felt weird, and far from my feelings changing for the worse, my feelings for her increased substantially when she was fucking the other guy.
We actually used (or I should say I used) Craigslist and found a guy close to our age nearby. He was in decent shape, about 9 inches and pretty thick, and we agreed to meet up and chat with him at his place. The first time we went there the conversation started pretty tame, and generic, about as naughty as it was was to ask "so have you done this kind of thing a lot" etc. Eventually I just threw it down and said "So, are we going to the bedroom or what?" We did, and she actually was pretty comfortable or at least willing, and we did it. It was hot, in fact I had to avoid touching myself or I would have cum almost instantly from the sight of the events before me.
We wound up doing it again with this guy, who was a nice intelligent educated guy, and then I found another post from a guy on CL and we wound up doing it with him 3 times.
The second guy was larger than the first guy, we actually measured him at 10 inches with a tailors tape, and very thick and super hard. A bit older, but enormous, and also intelligent and tidy, with his own house and meticulously kept vegetable gardens.
She enjoyed the fucking, we took pics and videos, and even asked from time to time "So how's so and so been lately", which was my signal to shoot them a text and see if they were up for another go. We eventually broke up, for reasons unrelated, and she asked me to delete everything and give her a copy on a flash drive, which I did.
New GF is much sexier, extremely hot, but she's not willing to go into threesome territory. She says once a man fucks her she can't go back, she won't be in love with me anymore. I have argued, discussed, debated, but ultimately accepted that she is sure of her feelings so I've dropped the subject.
Anyway, I was lucky to experience one of my biggest fantasies, and I wish you luck in your pursuit of yours. I would say one thing that I notice is that your wife wanting to talk to the guys to try to be attracted to them seems to be counter-intuitive to me. If it's about a big cock experience, then the kind of attraction you get from talking to someone should be secondary. That's relationship building material, and you're not after a relationship with the guy, you're after his cock. If she waits until she finds someone she has things in common with and could find herself attracted to emotionally, that seems to be a more dangerous proposition than simply the physical big cock fantasy you're actually after.
Good luck, keep us updated, and if you ever come to Austin, TX, I can introduce you to 3-4 guys who have 9+ and experience with threesomes. =]
pepinogrande
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"...your wife wanting to talk to the guys to try to be attracted to them seems to be counter-intuitive to me. If it's about a big cock experience, then the kind of attraction you get from talking to someone should be secondary. That's relationship building material, and you're not after a relationship with the guy, you're after his cock. If she waits until she finds someone she has things in common with and could find herself attracted to emotionally, that seems to be a more dangerous proposition than simply the physical big cock fantasy you're actually after."
----- I think that Edeneyes has a strong point here.
----- I think that Edeneyes has a strong point here.
Thanks Edeneyes, it was great reading about your experiences. I know it may seem like its a bit odd to have her talk to him to measure her attraction, but it just seems to make things easier. The physical attraction is what is most important to her, but I feel that its important to have him talk to her prior to meeting for a few reasons. The first reason is because they show their true colors once they talk to her, one of our requirements is that they are a respectful gentleman, and a lot of these guys talk like that to me, but once they talk to her they turn into douche perverts, and she is really disgusted by that type of thing. The second reason is that she is super nervous about this whole thing, its her first time doing this and talking to the guy before meeting him seems to calm her nerves, and hopefully allows her to enjoy the sex more, instead of just feeling nervous and awkward the whole time.
like I said to Edeneyes, she isn't talking with him to flirt or to create an attraction, she is talking to him to feel him out, we have dismissed a number of guys through this method and I am glad we did, also for her to feel more comfortable with the situation, because she is nervous.
I think what you're calling "douche pervert" is just the guy trying to talk dirty. I get that your wife would be put off by this, because she loves you and she doesn't want to feel like some guy's treating her like a conquest or a whore, but that doesn't mean they're not polite gentlemen.
I would propose that it's more than likely that they resort to aggressive dirty talk out of either confusion of how to move things forward, or perhaps boredom or frustration that things are not working out as they were led to believe they might.
The second guy we had an experience with, the guy with the 10 inches, liked to talk dirty and ask questions like "Do you like my big cock, do you want to be a dirty bitch for my big cock?" That sort of thing, which didn't really turn her on, but we understood that it was just his way of behaving when he's turned on.
You did state that your wife was "not attracted" to the first bull and spent a couple weeks trying to develop that attraction.
I suggest that if you want it to work out, you're going to have to settle for someone that's simply polite, clean, and willing to do what you guys want to do. Beyond that, nothing else really works, and the higher you set the bar, you face both the difficulty of finding someone to meet that bar and the danger of meeting someone that DOES meet that bar, and turns out to be more than you asked for...
If the guy is willing to agree to any and all conditions and rules you set forth, has the necessary physical attributes, and isn't a flake or just weird in any way, I think you should accept that that's about as good as it gets. That's really all you need, honestly, since you aren't looking for a marriage partner that has lifelong compatibility nor someone that can greatly enhance your lives.
You're looking for a big cock that will do things at your pace, period.
Good luck, hope you find it and that it fulfills your wildest fantasies!
Thanks for replying. I guess you are right about what I said, but that's not the reason we suggested that she talk to the guys initially, and its not the reason that she continues to talk to each other person we encounter. As for settling, we wont, we arn't THAT picky, we just want a polite, hung guy who she is physically attracted to and we will wait until we find the person we want. We have found that person a number of times already, they (both bulls) just stood us up on both occasions. They may have been fake or just got cold feet.
I agree with this. The weeding out process is essential. That includes weeding out the crazies (pardon the expression) but there are people out there with wrong intentions. Find them and lose them before you meet.
I had guys and girls that didn't and wouldn't chat with me first. I wrote them off quickly. There is a difference between finding a sexual match with chemistry (so that both can enjoy the experience) and talking about relationships. ...families. ...etc.
Bottom line is I'm not physically attracted to you and can have enough conversation to find out your kinks, dealbreakers, etc. It wasn't going to happen. ...even if you were a foot long.
Don't settle for less than your set standards. You and she have every right to be as shallow add you desire. This is. ..after all. .for fun. Guys get pissed off when you pass them over. ..but that's not your problem it's theirs.
I can't tell you how many times we were stood up. You just have to keep looking. (We would lineup 3-5 guys and be lucky if one showedup) My husband referred to it as "shooting buckshot" ... eventually you'll hit your target.
thanks betty! I assume that you and your partner have gone down this road before? Have anything you would like to share? It's nice having you comment on the flakes, maybe helps the nay-sayers realize that it isn't that easy to find a guy. Also helps me realize that it isn't so weird that we have been trying to do this for so long and had no success yet.
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