First Time Anal Sex

stevo19

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Hey so I have never had anal sex being bottom before. The guy that I am with has a 9inch dick and wants to be top. I have fingered myself before, but for the most part, don't enjoy the feeling.

My question is what can i do to prepare myself for this, since I know it is going to hurt.

Thanks
 

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Go SLOW. You control the rate of insertion. Try doggie style. He leans forward, places his cock head against you and you push back slowly. Let him enter. Head only. RELAX. Breathe. He continues to apply pressure by leaning forward a little, you keep pushing back. try to push a little like you are having a bowel movement to open up your ass a little. use a lot of lube. If he goes to hard or quick, you can get hurt. And bleed. That would be bad. You both must understand this or it will end the experience badly for both of you. It took my wife and I several attempts to get fully inserted. And I am average sized on a good day with the wind behind it :)