First time bi encounter : What was the biggest surprise or disappointment?

[Lovetobetouched]

We actually separated because her career took her to another country but we carried on together for about a year or so before that happened. She did introduce me to my current girlfriend who I have been with for over three years. She thought we would be a good match in general but particularily because we had very complementary sexual lifestyles. She is a very sex orientated person. She has had numerous boyfriends but none of them could handle her desire to have a semi open sexual lifestyle. She is totally hooked on threesomes, foursomes et al . She also is turned on by a big cock ( and variety) not just for the action but visual stimulation.
As I have a very tiny penis you would think we would be a total mismatch but this is where my sph fetish and equal desire for variety of playmates comes in. I have no problem just being a cuckold voyeur and love watching her being fucked by much better endowed guys. I definitely enjoy her watching me being fucked by those guys who are bi and she gets a kick out of the guy on guy action. These and a variety of other multiple participant scenarios are very much a part of our sexual lifestyle. Not long ago when she was away I had my first hookup with a guy without a female participating in some capacity. He was bi but mostly into men rather than women.

Nice story mate. You’re the boss. Best thing to be yourself and kw. Your sexual personality. Do you like Seb Cox and his blog Cumm.co.uk - he speaks of much the same. You’re a bloody sexual hero of a man. Not afraid to be yourself.

 

[deleted15682271]

I was surprised at how it happened and who it happened with. Wife’s best friends husband. I was equally surprised that his cock felt so good in my ass and that he was able to make me orgasm.

 

[Lakeshore]

The biggest surprise was his strong blasts of cum in my mouth. I have never experienced anyone ever again that blasted cum with such force. I kept sucking his cock during his orgasm which really pleased him.

 

[Mtlbidude]

The biggest surprise was how much masculinity turns me on in a men. With girls I've always liked to dominate so I'm also pretty masc.

At the time, I didnt even know if I was bi and was going through the usual gay porn jerk of then feeling guilty cycle. I was at the Uni and in the gym's locker room, there is a spa and sauna where people go in nude. My first big surprise was how I enjoyed being watched/cruised by older or more masc looking guy. I didnt even know what cruising was but I surely enjoyed it when a guy would try to touch my legs in the jaccuzi, but I would always ignore them while letting them do their thing (just some light "accidental yer voluntary" touching). One day, everything changed. I got to the locker room and there was mid-fifty dude, greek god body good looking and very straight looking. I walked into the locker saw him putting his shirt on (he already had his pants on) and maybe I starred a bit for too long at his amazing pecs ans 6pack. For some reasons, I walked towarda him and picked the locker next to his. I changed up then went to pee ( my innocent/naive self was hoping that he would follow). He actually did follow and went to pee next to me, then I noticed him stare at my dick which was already semi hard. Without even talking, he looked me in the eye, then I stepped back to let him play with it. He asked me to follow him in a more discrete/hidden restroom, he went down his knees and sucked me dry. From this day, every time we would see each other working out, we would ignored each other and the first one that finished the work out would make sure to pass by the other as signal that "I'm ready for you". He probably sucked me a good 10-20 times. Only disappointment was that he would not let me suck him, I tried to play with his dick but he could never get hard. On the other side, his cocksucking skills were out of this world. Excellent ! - Then my interest in dicks was confirmed, and when I would go to the sauna, I would start cruising.

My second big surprise was how submissive I am and how much of a size queen I am (ie. I like big dicks). The second guy, a ripped asian guy (probably from thailand) made eye contact and I followed him. The guy had a big and thick dick ! Probably above 8.5" easilly. While the first dude became my regular cocksucker, I became the second dude's regular cocksucker. Eventually, had a third guy that occasionally would be in the showers at the same time with a huge sack of balls - but I always kept him as last option if the other 2 guys are not there.

This leads me to my 3rd big surprise: that I am not only submissive, but the idea of being someone's personal slut gets me going.

This lasted for about 2 years until I became so guilty and thought that I turned gay and that I would never be into girls if I kept doing this. I was able to last for 2-3 years without submitting myself to what I thought was this toxic/guilty pleasure. To be frank, I'm impressed that I was able to keep it contain for that long by occasionally watching gay porn. Fastforward to now where I now know that I am bi and comfortable with my sexuality, I dont know if I could contain this "perhaps too occasional" urge.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

The biggest surprise was how much masculinity turns me on in a men. With girls I've always liked to dominate so I'm also pretty masc.

At the time, I didnt even know if I was bi and was going through the usual gay porn jerk of then feeling guilty cycle. I was at the Uni and in the gym's locker room, there is a spa and sauna where people go in nude. My first big surprise was how I enjoyed being watched/cruised by older or more masc looking guy. I didnt even know what cruising was but I surely enjoyed it when a guy would try to touch my legs in the jaccuzi, but I would always ignore them while letting them do their thing (just some light "accidental yer voluntary" touching). One day, everything changed. I got to the locker room and there was mid-fifty dude, greek god body good looking and very straight looking. I walked into the locker saw him putting his shirt on (he already had his pants on) and maybe I starred a bit for too long at his amazing pecs ans 6pack. For some reasons, I walked towarda him and picked the locker next to his. I changed up then went to pee ( my innocent/naive self was hoping that he would follow). He actually did follow and went to pee next to me, then I noticed him stare at my dick which was already semi hard. Without even talking, he looked me in the eye, then I stepped back to let him play with it. He asked me to follow him in a more discrete/hidden restroom, he went down his knees and sucked me dry. From this day, every time we would see each other working out, we would ignored each other and the first one that finished the work out would make sure to pass by the other as signal that "I'm ready for you". He probably sucked me a good 10-20 times. Only disappointment was that he would not let me suck him, I tried to play with his dick but he could never get hard. On the other side, his cocksucking skills were out of this world. Excellent ! - Then my interest in dicks was confirmed, and when I would go to the sauna, I would start cruising.

My second big surprise was how submissive I am and how much of a size queen I am (ie. I like big dicks). The second guy, a ripped asian guy (probably from thailand) made eye contact and I followed him. The guy had a big and thick dick ! Probably above 8.5" easilly. While the first dude became my regular cocksucker, I became the second dude's regular cocksucker. Eventually, had a third guy that occasionally would be in the showers at the same time with a huge sack of balls - but I always kept him as last option if the other 2 guys are not there.

This leads me to my 3rd big surprise: that I am not only submissive, but the idea of being someone's personal slut gets me going.

This lasted for about 2 years until I became so guilty and thought that I turned gay and that I would never be into girls if I kept doing this. I was able to last for 2-3 years without submitting myself to what I thought was this toxic/guilty pleasure. To be frank, I'm impressed that I was able to keep it contain for that long by occasionally watching gay porn. Fastforward to now where I now know that I am bi and comfortable with my sexuality, I dont know if I could contain this "perhaps too occasional" urge.

Great story bud. Yep. It’s surprising which blokes are in to it and how many.
there are a range of what guys will or won’t do. The intersection of our various proclivities, fetishes and stages of acceptance/ denial. Your Greek god bod Bloke and his fetish with sucking but not being sucked is a good example. I’ve discovered my lines of what I do and what I don’t. That leads me to think it’s sort of a fetish. I like the dirty little secret of I all and finding guys with a complementary or common interest. It’s a bonding thing and I doubt if it could replace my total sexual interest.

 

[aldawg]

My surprise was just how much it hurt getting penetrated. I literally thought my ass was on fire and I was being split in two. And this was by a very smallish 4 1/2"cock. It was my college roommate who had loved when I fucked him just before and my cock is 7" on a good day. We continued to fuck around for a couple of years but I rarely let him do me...I just couldn't take the pain. On an interesting side note, years later when I tried it again (early 50's), I loved it. Now I have a fuck buddy who plows my ass with his thick cock and I love it.....go figure.

 

[mrbigdoc]

The real opener for me was how much I did enjoy sucking his cock.... Can't explain how good it was. So I kept seeing others and exchanging blow jobs..... So glad I started and will never stop!!

 

[bi2]

The real opener for me was how much I did enjoy sucking his cock.... Can't explain how good it was. So I kept seeing others and exchanging blow jobs..... So glad I started and will never stop!!

Wait till you try and enjoy anal sex. Its very addictive.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

Wait till you try and enjoy anal sex. Its very addictive.

I don’t really enjoy sucking or even being sucked. It’s the idea of it I like. I like being rimmed and have had fun with a P-spot massager but have never been penetrated. I like the idea but, like the sucking, not sure if the reality would be good for me. Judging by the rimming and prostate massager, I may do…. Watch this space. But what I really love is touching dick and frott. Just can’t get enough of that.

 

[lycraluvr223]

Oh man, I have to write about this in the True stories section. It happened in the Military. One of my friends, who didn't know he was gay at the time started rubbing me, innocently and kept on going. It felt good and I didn't expect him to do anything sexual. He did eventually start to rub my penis through my pants. I was incredibly turned on, but also it had me so scared I started to tremble and told him to get out of the room. He came back later, apologized to me, and I forgave him. I told him that if he wanted to finish, I would let him. He picked up where he left off, except I took my pants off. He took my penis out of my underwear and gave me a blow job. His first and my first from a guy. I wasn't very sexually active prior to this only having had two female partners (one voluntary, the other more or less raped me).

Hot story. Military also. Had glory hole encounter off post.

 

[deleted15682271]

I don’t really enjoy sucking or even being sucked. It’s the idea of it I like. I like being rimmed and have had fun with a P-spot massager but have never been penetrated. I like the idea but, like the sucking, not sure if the reality would be good for me. Judging by the rimming and prostate massager, I may do…. Watch this space. But what I really love is touching dick and frott. Just can’t get enough of that.

If you like prostate play you will love sex

 

[Marriedinkansas]

I was surprised at how it happened and who it happened with. Wife’s best friends husband. I was equally surprised that his cock felt so good in my ass and that he was able to make me orgasm.

I need to hear all of that story

 

[elklindoxxx]

My first time was at a circle jerk at a nude beach. And I couldn't believe that I actually did it...

And my BFF to this day teases me about it....now I'm called the "rain maker"......lol.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

My first time was at a circle jerk at a nude beach. And I couldn't believe that I actually did it...

And my BFF to this day teases me about it....now I'm called the "rain maker"......lol.

It’s just such a great feeling getting in on the circle jerk and joining in.

 

[deleted15682271]

I’ll add a disappointment. I wish his penis was a just a little bigger. He was able to make me orgasm, yet a little bigger would be better.
Another. 1st time fucking him, I had a butt plug in, it made me not last quite long enough. I ended up finishing him with my fingers and mouth.

 

[Richiecable]

Biggest surprise to me was how much I loved having a cock in me. First time was with and older guy when I was in my 20’s. He laid me stomach down and as he penetrated me it just felt so perfect.
My second surprise was when I bottomed to a humongous cock. Thought I wouldn’t be able to take it but felt a lot better than smaller. Just filled the right places I guess.

 

[girth000]

I was most surprised by his cock's girth I tried to suck.