First Time Bottoming Advice

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I’ve never done anything with a guy before and had a few questions about bottoming if anyone would like to help ?

Does it hurt the first time ?
Does it leave any damage ?
and why do you love it ?
 
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Hi
I’ve never done anything with a guy before and had a few questions about bottoming if anyone would like to help ?

Does it hurt the first time ?
Does it leave any damage ?
and why do you love it ?


Does it hurt the first time ?
The pain threshold is highly correspond to the amount of cash in his wallet. The more money he has in his wallet, the lesser the pain. If he’s barely scraping by paying his and my bills, the pain level is like giving birth.

Does it leave any damage ?
Nothing that money can’t fix or buy. They have vaginal rejuvenation now. So, i’m guessing you can do the same for the anus.

and why do you love it ?
Cash in hand an is tax free.
 
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Hi
I’ve never done anything with a guy before and had a few questions about bottoming if anyone would like to help ?

Does it hurt the first time ?
Does it leave any damage ?
and why do you love it ?

it does hurt usually the first time. Depends on how big the top is and how patient he will be. I’d recommend practice with a dildo before you bottom for the first time.
 

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Hi
I’ve never done anything with a guy before and had a few questions about bottoming if anyone would like to help ?

Does it hurt the first time ?
Does it leave any damage ?
and why do you love it ?
like the guy above me said it depends on many things, my advice would be let the other guy know you are a virgin, use lube and spende a big amount of time preparing your ass, let him finger you, use a dildo etc...
It is also very important that you are comfortable (preferably in bed) because its easier to relax which tonme is the key to anal sex
 

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Does it hurt the first time ?

Adding to what the others have already said: some guys feel pain the first time, but others don’t. I do agree you should probably practice with a dildo or a butt plug or something. That way you can get used to the feeling and see how your body responds. If you do cramp up, you can always try pushing out like you’re taking a shit— because that usually loosens up your muscles.

Plus, like the others have said, use plenty of lube. In the beginning, you might try basic stuff like K-Y Jelly. But as you get more experienced, you should shop around till you find the lube you like best (personally, I use water-based Analyse Me). Either way, make sure to use plenty of it, because it can make the difference between pain and sheer joy.

Does it leave any damage ?

No. A dick up your ass won’t cause damage, unless you have a medical condition like hemorrhoids or anal fissures. And be careful if you’re using a dildo or some other toy: you don’t want to stick it up too far. But otherwise, you’ll be fine.

and why do you love it ?

Where do I start?!?! First of all, you’ve got lots of nerve endings down there, so it can feel really pleasurable, just like if you’re playing with your hole. Plus there’s the sheer intimacy of making love to a man, especially if you’re really into him. And last but not least, if he hits your prostate (a.k.a. the make G-spot) you’ll feel a whole new kind of ecstasy. And if you’re lucky enough to have an anal orgasm... WOW!!!
 
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Does it hurt the first time ?
The pain threshold is highly correspond to the amount of cash in his wallet. The more money he has in his wallet, the lesser the pain. If he’s barely scraping by paying his and my bills, the pain level is like giving birth.

Does it leave any damage ?
Nothing that money can’t fix or buy. They have vaginal rejuvenation now. So, i’m guessing you can do the same for the anus.

and why do you love it ?
Cash in hand an is tax free.
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Hey
Just wanted to say thank you for all ur advice, it went well despite the usual messiness that comes from a first time.

Congratulations!!! I hope you really enjoyed it! And I hope it keeps getting better and better with your second time, and your third time, and many more!