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I will see be bottoming for the first time. What is the best position for a first timer?
 
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Do this before you have your meal and it's always best if the bottom has evacuated the bowels first. Empty and clean is good!

Bottom needs to be face down and relaxed. He (top guy) will need LOTS of lube, sensual foreplay helps a lot too, and go slowly. Once he gets his head inside, he should stop while you adjust to his thickness. Slowly he will then start to fuck your tight end and the pleasure for the bottom will be realized once he has opened you up a bit.
 

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Do this before you have your meal and it's always best if the bottom has evacuated the bowels first. Empty and clean is good!

Bottom needs to be face down and relaxed. He (top guy) will need LOTS of lube, sensual foreplay helps a lot too, and go slowly. Once he gets his head inside, he should stop while you adjust to his thickness. Slowly he will then start to fuck your tight end and the pleasure for the bottom will be realized once he has opened you up a bit.
How do I feel like you were getting off while you wrote this?
 

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First timers or any bottom not used to penetration I put on top so they control how much they take how fast. If you know how to clean out with an enema kit first so much the better. I use a lube injector and water based lube to get plenty of it in deep.

Before I bottomed the first time I practiced relaxing my hole for a couple weeks using progressively larger butt plugs with lots of lube after cleaning myself out and injecting lube inside. Then just before going to bed with him I cleaned out and lubed myself. It made it a lot easier for both of us.

As predominately top I appreciate a bottom who is prepared. :)