First time cottaging

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  1. D_Geaffardson Jelliwilli

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    Just got back from my first cottaging experience. I have been trying to pluck up the courage and visited this place a number of times to "check it out", it was listed on another iste (can I mention other sites on here without getting banned?).

    Anyway, ducked in during lunch, went in cubicle, guy looks through crack in door as I show off my big piece, then let him and he wanked me off. I came in like 10 seconds and then hurried him out the door without returning.

    Just waht is the etiquette in these places, I feel a social dilemna coming on!

    Anyway, it was kind of exhilirating and may try again.

    Anyone else got experiences to share?
     
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    never heard of cottaging sounds interesting :cool:
     
  3. D_Geaffardson Jelliwilli

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    Pretty much as described, but new to me as well. Maybe they call it different things in different places
     
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    What is this pay and display or a free public sucking joint? Please elaborate..and you'reonly a little less straight than me! Wow!!!
     
  5. D_Geaffardson Jelliwilli

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    I know, it has become one of a "handful" of experiences...

    I reckon based on number of "sex events" that I'd be like 99.95% straight but I reckon that may have now changed to say 99.9%!!

    It was just an ordinary food court mall toilets. I'd read about it on another site (which has the purpose of telling people about "cruising") and had recently gone there out of "curiosity". I was curious again today and popped in and went into a cubicle. I was horny and started jackin, noticed someone watching through the crack between the door and wall and errr.. let him and he finished me off.:redface:

     
  6. reallyhot

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    Do you mean frottage?
    or did you go stay at a cottage?
    Sounds like you had fun either way!
    :smile:
     
  7. D_Geaffardson Jelliwilli

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    I guess "cottaging" is an English expression for what might otherwise be cruising
     
  8. TurkeyWithaSunburn

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    TeaRooms or bathroom cruising are probably words more familiar for Americans.

    Or the porn theaters/arcades... but sounds like it wasn't a porno place <heh>
     
  9. Principessa

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    Sounds like a gloryhole without the hole. :biggrin1:

    I have to admit the thread title made me think someone was writing about having been to an English cottage for the week. One of those deals where you swap homes with someone.:tongue:
     
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    I had to look this up, which is weird since I thought I knew all sex things, but it seems to me that you make some sort of signal, then the other person gives one back, and either a glory hole or actual face to face happens. Am I correct?
     
  11. D_Geaffardson Jelliwilli

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    I'm no expert on the etiquette, but I think there may be foot tapping involved as a signal (wasnt some US senator doing that recently?)
     
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    I knew I was forgetting a damn word in my post!... gloryhole gloryhole gloryhole :biggrin1:
    Oh I'm pretty sure some of those cottages have gloryholes :smile: I don't know first hand cuz I've never been outside of the USA or even seen a gloryhole in person :tongue:

    Sen. Larry Craig... tap one of your feet 3 times and then slide your hand under/along the bottom of the stall. Amazing what the politicians are teaching us these days LOL

    Probably google tearoom etiquette
     
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  13. D_Geaffardson Jelliwilli

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    I did, this is what I found:

    "A seaside tea room is throwing out customers if they commit that most cardinal of sins - dunking their biscuits.

    Resting elbows on tables, clinking spoons on the sides of cups while stirring, using a mobile phone and being rude about the Queen or other Royals are also likely to lead to ejection from the Tea Cosy in Brighton."

    So I guess as a minimum it's useful to know not to be rude about the queen.
     
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    I couldn't do cottaging, but my idea on glory holes is this: If I don't know the sex of the person on the other side, I don't care. I'm not a homophobe, but a guy sucking me off, not something I see as a turn on.
     
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    I thought this thread was going to be about houses in the country or cheese
    :eek:
     
  16. vince

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    Same here. :rolleyes: Going to the cottage is a part of the summer ritual in Canada. I want to build one for myself over here. (sans glory hole :tongue: )
     
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    Why arent there any where i live?!
    Are there any established "cruising/cottaging" places in central london???
     
  18. ManlyBanisters

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    Are you fucking joking? There must be 100s.

    I just googled "cottaging london" - there are sites dedicated to this.

    Aside: I never knew cottaging was not an international term for this. Learn something knew every day! :smile:
     
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    Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, that's not cottaging, that's republicanism!

    :eek::wink::biggrin1::eek::wink::biggrin1::eek:
     
  20. reallyhot

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    Well I think its high time to go buy a cottage, and try cottaging
    for myself! LOL
    I think I'll have some cottage cheese for lunch in the meantime!
    It's a grand day for cottagers, eh?
    Have a good one!:smile:
     
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