First Time Dildo User - Tips? Stories? Techniques?

[db3710]

Hey guys! Just ordered my first dildo online. I've never used one before. I thought while I anxiously await it's arrival, I might ask some experienced guys for any tips or warnings.

This is what I ordered: Real Skin Curved Cock - Dildos - AdamMale along with a water based lube.

Please share :biggrin1:

 

[ek1230]

nice choice! pointers get the biggest u can ,, there fun I like um deep !

 

[EquusAZ]

Looks like you made a good choice. Remember to clean out firse (i.e. douche) and to focus on the pleasure you are going to get - NOT the pain. If you focus on the pleasure it will be SO much better!

 

[db3710]

Looks like you made a good choice. Remember to clean out firse (i.e. douche) and to focus on the pleasure you are going to get - NOT the pain. If you focus on the pleasure it will be SO much better!

Any easy ways to douche at home? Shower?

 

[pirea]

search with dildo to find prostrate and push down on dildo and cum with drip out of penis, it feels AMAZING. each drop of cum pushed out feels like an explosion of relief. I find I can just dildo my self and not need to whack off, just push the cum out via ass and dildo

 

[cvcgolf]

If you've never had anything in your ass then most likely you'll never get this in your ass either.. You need to start small and work your way up.. If it doesn't fit then begin with purchasing a thin vibrator.. Working your way up is the way to go..

 

[JockVamp]

^ what he said!

Absolutely start with something small and thin to get used to the sensations if you've never experienced anything like that before. It's a moral imperative.

 

[Exbiker]

Yeah I'd start smaller and work your way up.

Also, do it slow, take your time (it's not a race!)

Try to relax as much as possible. Lighting, music, warmth can help.

Visualising it as part of a handsome man ( or dominant, cute, whatever you need ) can help sometimes.

Have fun. :smile:

 

[a3sthetic]

Hmmm. Cyberskin is porous meaning it will tend to trap bacteria and virus inside the dildo. It cannot be sterilised so you should use a condom on it. Especially if you plan to share it.

You should also make sure the material is phthalate free. Some plastics are toxic and are usually found in cheaper products. Ideally silicone is your best choice.

 

[BBB2.5]

Hey guys! Just ordered my first dildo online. I've never used one before. I thought while I anxiously await it's arrival, I might ask some experienced guys for any tips or warnings.

This is what I ordered: Real Skin Curved Cock - Dildos - AdamMale along with a water based lube.

Please share :biggrin1:

Okay I am an experienced dildo player... this is a nice choice. Don't be surprised when it arrives, because it will look huge. Not to worry. Have you ever had anything up your butt or is it a virgin If not it will be a slight challenge, but not unapproachable. Most people seem to get nervous and even worried , which makes it difficult. I agree with EquusAz , focus on the pleasure not the pain. Clean out before you play, nothing worse than a dirty play session.
Use a water based lube. Anything other than that can, over time cause the material that your dildo is made of to break down. (takes a long time)
From the picture of your new buddy, the head looks perfect for entry. Lube it up real good, even getting some inside your butt would be good. I would recommend the sitting position first. Go Slow, do NOT rush it. Let your body control you, enjoy the pleasure it feels. Your in charge, allow yourself to open up slowly. There are no rules that state you must take it all the first try. It may in fact take you several times to reach the balls... Just enjoy yourself, and be Happy.

 

[a3sthetic]

As for technique, an easy way to get it to go in is to press the tip to your hole, clench your hole for 5 seconds then relax. The lubed dildo should slide in a short way before things tighten up and make it painful to go further. Simply hold it at that depth and repeat the contract/ relax process until you get it all the way in.

You should not have to force it at any point. It should not be searingly painful. If so you need to either hold still until the pain subsides or back it out and start again.

Thrusting back and forth within the range that's comfortable can also allow you to go a bit deeper eventually too.

Personally, I wouldn't use dildoes much thicker than your sex partner otherwise you'll become so stretched out that sex with them will become less satisfying. If you think this has happened you just need to give your hole a break for a while and it should tighen up. It's kind of like getting an ear piercing to close. Lol. I've never gone into king sized toys so I can't say where the point of no return is, and personally, I don't want to test that out.

 

[a3sthetic]

If you are new to anal play, 2 inches is a big jumping off point. You might have an easier time starting with fingers, then 1.25, then 1.5, then 1.75 before trying 2 inches.

 

[muscleman1965]

Try an aneros instead of a large dildo to start with. I use the Progasm model. It's nice to linger with it in your butt and be amazed at your orgasms, takes time buut worth it

 

[bigheadtom]

My procedure:
First go to the bathroom and purge.
Use an anal douche to clean up some more.
Go in shower and lube a dildo and the butt.
Take a hit of poppers and slide 'er in.
I use a "starter" dildo in the shower to both get used to it a bit and to help clean a bit more. If you do have any more mess, it's no big deal if in the shower.
Being a bit more advanced of a practitioner I guess, my starter is a Shane Diesel, which might be a bit large for most. I start with that and then move on to a trio of John Holmes, the Titanman Intimidator, and BAM. With BAM having an insertable length of 10" and a circumference of 8.5", it will get the job done.

 

[Otep]

Someone already mentioned using a condom to protect it but I'd also recommend using a condom because it may be more slippery with lube on it than the dildo itself. Some dildos don't take lube as well as others and are more difficult to comfortably use, especially for beginners. Covering it in a condom really helps with the sliding action as it will grip your hole less.

 

[Gay in pantyhose]

I love my eight inch Latin American dildo. My pantyhose holds it in place when sleeping.

 

[Anyjoe]

I am also somewhat of a newbie in the dildo dept.
My 6" er is just right for regular use - if you are looking for pleasure.
If you want to scream and wretch stick with the one your bought,

 

[Rutherruther]

How did it go?