First Time Douching with Bulb (Advice)

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Warning: TMI and me probably being extremely incompetent

I tried douching for the first time using a douche bulb. (I'm trying to get used to a dildo before I engage in sex but every time I use it, it's really messy) I tried following videos and online guides and yet, whatever i'm doing is not working. This is what I did:

  • Filled up old glass with water
  • Placed bulb into glass - squeezed bulb and then let go to allow water to be suctioned up
  • Put lube on bulb nozzle and then inserted into rectum
  • Squeezed bulb as much as I could
  • Pulled bulb out of rectum and then released pressure off bulb
  • Waited for the feeling of it needing to be released
There were times where it felt like it was working and water was being released. But then it just felt like I was pumping air into myself. The water stayed in the bulb and the only stuff I was releasing was air. Then, I was releasing a little bit of water but not much. I tried doing this process until the water I was releasing was clean but it was taking a while lol (This whole process took like 40mins-1hr). Then I ended up actually needing the toilet halfway through. Which was frustrating af. I tried cleaning after again but it felt pointless because whatever I was doing wasn't working. Now, i'm sat here probably still unclean and feeling like I have "stomach aches" with occasional rumbling. Like I just guzzled a Litre of milk while being lactose intolerant. What did I do wrong? The only thing I can think of is step 5 - after releasing pressure off the bulb outside of rectum; air might have been suctioned up? Also, how do I clean the douche bulb? Do I just suction up soapy water?
 

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Try not to get any air in the blub or the wand before inserting. If Im reading you correctly, it seems like you might have a bit of air in the wand part and that's also going inside you with the water. It can really not help the process to have air bubbles (which rise higher and then have to come out eventually, maybe while you're actually fucking :/ ).

To overcome that, after you fill the bulb (which is basically like a syringe if that helps put it in perspective), squeeze it gently until the water starts dribbling out. Without releasing, insert it back into the water to pull up more, so that before you insert there is ONLY water in the whole apparatus. You can skip the glass, and just unscrew the wand and fill under the tap. Do the air clearing steps above under running water and a cupped hand to clear the air.

Some of the rest of this can really depend on a bunch of factors, like how solid your stools are, what time of day it is, and if you've had a recent BM before you get started, or if you're trying to clear your whole rectum instead of just a bit of a cleanse. Some of this can be overcome with diet, but there are also fibre supplements you can get (which you can also whip up on your own). <- This sounds like a lot of commitment, but regularity is great for a lot more than anal sex. ;)

Here is a bit more of a comprehensive guide that I like:

https://www.gaysandgadgets.com/2021/02/22/cleaning-out-by-blindjaw/
 

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Try not to get any air in the blub or the wand before inserting. If Im reading you correctly, it seems like you might have a bit of air in the wand part and that's also going inside you with the water. It can really not help the process to have air bubbles (which rise higher and then have to come out eventually, maybe while you're actually fucking :/ ).

To overcome that, after you fill the bulb (which is basically like a syringe if that helps put it in perspective), squeeze it gently until the water starts dribbling out. Without releasing, insert it back into the water to pull up more, so that before you insert there is ONLY water in the whole apparatus. You can skip the glass, and just unscrew the wand and fill under the tap. Do the air clearing steps above under running water and a cupped hand to clear the air.

Some of the rest of this can really depend on a bunch of factors, like how solid your stools are, what time of day it is, and if you've had a recent BM before you get started, or if you're trying to clear your whole rectum instead of just a bit of a cleanse. Some of this can be overcome with diet, but there are also fibre supplements you can get (which you can also whip up on your own). <- This sounds like a lot of commitment, but regularity is great for a lot more than anal sex. ;)

Here is a bit more of a comprehensive guide that I like:

https://www.gaysandgadgets.com/2021/02/22/cleaning-out-by-blindjaw/
Such a great article! Thank you for sharing.
 

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As in above vid, I tend to go with the 'less is more' approach. I have a very soft bulb with a screw top nozzle, so I can fill the bulb directly from the tap, and not have to suck water up from a glass. I use warm water, and douche no more than three or four times, about thirty minutes before sex. When the nozzle end is inside, I squeeze the bulb to empty it, whilst standing. I keep it squeezed flat until I withdraw it, that way avoiding any backflow or air. Having introduced the water inside, I normally give it the time it takes me to stand at the sink to refill the bulb, before I'm ready to push the water out. After the third or fourth repeat, I'm usually good to go. It takes no more than ten minutes. The important thing I find is to stay relaxed about it, get it done quickly, and then look forward to the fucking.