First time for a gay sauna, advice?

[Dyl_]

Hi, basically I’m going on a family holiday lol next month and where I am going there is a gay sauna there, I have never been to one, I only came out as gay last October and before then never really interacted with a lad, only lost me virginity recently. Going from just loosing my v to going to a gay sauna seems like a big jump but I have been interested in trying one but there’s none where I live close enough too so this is a good chance to try one but I have never been to one so just wanted to get some advice on what they are like and how they work

 

[theplayerking]

Hi, basically I’m going on a family holiday lol next month and where I am going there is a gay sauna there, I have never been to one, I only came out as gay last October and before then never really interacted with a lad, only lost me virginity recently. Going from just loosing my v to going to a gay sauna seems like a big jump but I have been interested in trying one but there’s none where I live close enough too so this is a good chance to try one but I have never been to one so just wanted to get some advice on what they are like and how they work

It’s like going to a gay bar, but you are wearing a towel, which makes fooling around much less encumbered. Like gay bars, they may or may not be busy and they may or may not have a crowd you’re into (or vice versa).

You don’t have to anything you don’t want to do. No means no. It’s fine if you just want to observe the first time. Of course, guys tend to get caught up in the moment so be prepared and have any precautions or protections you feel appropriate.

Personally, the first time I went to one I was expecting it to be Nirvana and was disappointed, mainly because it wasn’t as busy as I had hoped. You need to try several before you make up your mind on if you enjoy them or not.

Relax and have fun.

 

[goldscorpguy]

I go to a gay spa around once a month, have done for years. Even now, I always go with an open mind. On some visits everything clicks, other times it doesn't. A lot of it is being lucky on the day.

The quality of spas can vary vastly too from town to town. The place I go to is clean and well staffed. There are free condoms and lube always available. They have a conventional spa area, and a whole floor upstairs taken up with various cabins, glory holes and slings. There are porn screens playing in most rooms.

As @theplayerking says, try them out, don't have too many expectations the first time, and don't be pressured...do what your happy with. I was nervous af the first time, but that soon wears off.

 

[Dyl_]

It’s like going to a gay bar, but you are wearing a towel, which makes fooling around much less encumbered. Like gay bars, they may or may not be busy and they may or may not have a crowd you’re into (or vice versa).

You don’t have to anything you don’t want to do. No means no. It’s fine if you just want to observe the first time. Of course, guys tend to get caught up in the moment so be prepared and have any precautions or protections you feel appropriate.

Personally, the first time I went to one I was expecting it to be Nirvana and was disappointed, mainly because it wasn’t as busy as I had hoped. You need to try several before you make up your mind on if you enjoy them or not.

Relax and have fun.

Thanks! Tbh I’ve never even been to a gay bar haha this year is like a first for a lot of things for me but thanks for the advice!

 

[Dyl_]

I go to a gay spa around once a month, have done for years. Even now, I always go with an open mind. On some visits everything clicks, other times it doesn't. A lot of it is being lucky on the day.

The quality of spas can vary vastly too from town to town. The place I go to is clean and well staffed. There are free condoms and lube always available. They have a conventional spa area, and a whole floor upstairs taken up with various cabins, glory holes and slings. There are porn screens playing in most rooms.

As @theplayerking says, try them out, don't have too many expectations the first time, and don't be pressured...do what your happy with. I was nervous af the first time, but that soon wears off.

Thanks for the advice! Even if it doesn’t end up being what I expected at least I tried it anyway

 

[None your business]

Take it easy. No expectations . My first 2 times nothing. Then my 3rd time. Amazing. I sucked 4 cocks in about 2 1/2 hours. The first 2 were ok. The guys were about 5-6 inches hard was nice, lots of cum. The 3rd guy was incredibly fine, 7-8 inches hard , fine body no hair he didn’t cum as he had been sucked dry earlier. I was fine with that. The 4th guy was an older guy very interesting nice hard cock but he came very quickly. Enjoy whatever you do

 

[kolowskiBRO]

What exactly do you care if you don't know anyone there?

 

[Dyl_]

What exactly do you care if you don't know anyone there?

True that! Haha

 

[Dyl_]

Take it easy. No expectations . My first 2 times nothing. Then my 3rd time. Amazing. I sucked 4 cocks in about 2 1/2 hours. The first 2 were ok. The guys were about 5-6 inches hard was nice, lots of cum. The 3rd guy was incredibly fine, 7-8 inches hard , fine body no hair he didn’t cum as he had been sucked dry earlier. I was fine with that. The 4th guy was an older guy very interesting nice hard cock but he came very quickly. Enjoy whatever you do

Nice! I’m just gunna go and try it out and see what happens

 

[goldscorpguy]

Nice! I’m just gunna go and try it out and see what happens

I'm sure we'd all like a full, in depth report on how it goes

 

[Dyl_]

I'm sure we'd all like a full, in depth report on how it goes

Hahaha obviously will give a full report of the experience haha

 

[jdphnx]

As they said above, it could be hit or miss. If it's disappointing, try again! Try different clubs. Also, most of the clubs I've been to were generally kept pretty clean, but I'm careful anyway. If I actually have contact with someone, ANY kind of contact, I head straight to the showers and do a thorough wash up. Same for when I'm done using the pool, hot tub, sauna, steam room, etc. Keep yourself clean, not just for your sake but for the enjoyment of others.

 

[Dyl_]

As they said above, it could be hit or miss. If it's disappointing, try again! Try different clubs. Also, most of the clubs I've been to were generally kept pretty clean, but I'm careful anyway. If I actually have contact with someone, ANY kind of contact, I head straight to the showers and do a thorough wash up. Same for when I'm done using the pool, hot tub, sauna, steam room, etc. Keep yourself clean, not just for your sake but for the enjoyment of others.

Yeah I get this I’m bit of a clean freak tbh so I’ll be the same way

 

[J32]

Some practical tips…

Hydrate before you go. You’ll likely be spending a lot of time in the stream/sauna. Some of them have water available but it’s usually just a small little paper cup. I usually take a bottled water I leave in my locker.

Be prepared to stay for a little while. Depending on the spa you might arrive and not see anyone you’re interested in or it just might be slow. Stick around for a little while and see if it changes. I’ve arrived to an empty spa only for it to fill up in half an hour.

Not sure how many towels you get but always keep one dry for when you’re finished. If you only get one then enjoy the naked experience.

Be prepared for pushy guys. Especially if you
have a big cock. I usually just push their hand away or make sure I’m not giving them any signs.

 

[Dyl_]

Some practical tips…

Hydrate before you go. You’ll likely be spending a lot of time in the stream/sauna. Some of them have water available but it’s usually just a small little paper cup. I usually take a bottled water I leave in my locker.

Be prepared to stay for a little while. Depending on the spa you might arrive and not see anyone you’re interested in or it just might be slow. Stick around for a little while and see if it changes. I’ve arrived to an empty spa only for it to fill up in half an hour.

Not sure how many towels you get but always keep one dry for when you’re finished. If you only get one then enjoy the naked experience.

Be prepared for pushy guys. Especially if you
have a big cock. I usually just push their hand away or make sure I’m not giving them any signs.

Thanks, definitely take my own bottle of water and also my cock isn’t the biggest so I don’t think many will grab on to it hahaha

 

[Dyl_]

I’m back from my holiday haha, I did go to the sauna so here is my experience, I did enjoy it, it was real hot but I couldn’t stay long due to being on holiday with family haha, at first it was a lot of older people which is fine as I like having fun with older people, it was a lot of sucking fun and wanking at first I was in the steam room surrounded by a bunch of men, one was sucking and biting my nipples while fingering my hole, then I was stroking two of them while they touched me too and then I was being face fucked by another it was hot I was loving it getting played with by a bunch of people hahah but then one of them was stroking my dick and pulled down a bit too harsh and I have tight foreskin and it hurt badly hahaha so I went soft immediately which killed my vibe as I was gunna let them all fuck me tbh I was that horny but it was like a instant wake up from the horniness when It happened so I just let them cum all over me instead and then took a break and then I chatted with a man on my break and we went to a dark room when he rimmed me and stroked me gently as I told him about my foreskin and then I let him fuck me and it was really great I loved it haha he didn’t cum inside as I didn’t want anyone too while I was there but I let him cum on me face like the others, then I had to quickly get washed and go and meet back with my family haha,

 

[Dyl_]

I would do it again but I couldn’t do it all the time or very frequent hahahah don’t know how to explain it but it was a draining experience too even if I liked it or not

 

[Dyl_]

I had some other first experiences on this holiday too that kind of tired me out too before I even got to the sauna

 

[just Erik]

What city? The very day I turned 18 I was in Club Z in Seattle, I got sucked off 3 times that first visit Loved it.

 

[Dyl_]

What city? The very day I turned 18 I was in Club Z in Seattle, I got sucked off 3 times that first visit Loved it.

I was on holiday in Spain haha don’t wanna say where like but it’s in Spain