First time fucking a guy

[Almostcurious7]

Can any of you guys who mostly identify as striaght or curious tell me about the first time you fucked a guy? So far I’ve only ever done Frot and ism insanely obsessed with it. I have a regular abs I’m getting real close to the idea of fucking him but I’m so nervous I’m afraid I won’t be able to stay hard

 

[Thickbear96]

I’m right there with you man. Have a guy lined up now with a sexy ass and big cock. Even has a safe place to meet. So apprehensive!! I want his sweet ass so bad. Never been with a man.

 

[theplayerking]

Can any of you guys who mostly identify as striaght or curious tell me about the first time you fucked a guy? So far I’ve only ever done Frot and ism insanely obsessed with it. I have a regular abs I’m getting real close to the idea of fucking him but I’m so nervous I’m afraid I won’t be able to stay hard

Have you done it yet? If so, how was it? You could always take a Viagra for a little extra insurance.

 

[Almostcurious7]

I have not. I do have a regular I jerk with and we’ve been discussing it

 

[Joesdog]

I'm not straight or curious (any more), I'm a bi guy. I lived much of my life as a gay guy, though. I've fucked more than a few guys. What are you curious about, in particular? I think that your best bet for being with your first man for anal is to find someone with some experience. I know, it seems more romantic to get it on the first time with another "untouched youth," but two levels of inexperience building on each other can be a little problematic. Someone who can take you without a lot of struggle is going to be better, and someone with some sinuous hips who knows how to grind 'em is going to be even better.
In general:
Use a lot of lube. Get the water or silicone based kind, and use a lot.
Go slow and easy. I know, it feels like you should hurry and experience it, but the whole deal is about x5 better if you slow down.
I know it's a bit of an advanced technique to rim, but at least finger his ass some before you move in.

 

[dorwla]

My first time was with a guy I did an incall massage with at his place. He was hispanic, a petite body but very muscular. I was new even at the massage sensual/erotic thing. This was a massage on a bed BTW and it just evolved until he sat on my cock and after a few I just dumped inside him. I was not expecting this so I'm apologetic and he says no problem, just hope you enjoyed it. This was early on when I started exploring and his tight body just turned me on and put me over the top. Personally I have come to think this is a good way to go even if it costs $$$ as it is pretty safe. Just a week ago I was scammed by someone on Squirt who tried to blackmail me. If you are just looking for NSA m4m fun once in a while the erotic massage route is a good way togo. (If they don't break the bank). I have had many different and varied experiences over the past 10 years other than massages. I just like this route; just my opinion. Take care

 

[Smoke10]

When I did it, the guy had dropped his shorts and was bent over his truck seat. His ass was so nice I had to fuck him

 

[theplayerking]

I have not. I do have a regular I jerk with and we’ve been discussing it

Nearly everyone sucks at sex the first few times. It natural and probably inevitable. You need to be honest with your bud. Set the expectation by telling him you’re nervous and it might not be amazing the first time. However you know that practice makes perfect and you want to explore it with him.

Keep a sense of humor and don’t stress about being perfect. Casual mansex should be relaxed and fun.

 

[Almostcurious7]

Nearly everyone sucks at sex the first few times. It natural and probably inevitable. You need to be honest with your bud. Set the expectation by telling him you’re nervous and it might not be amazing the first time. However you know that practice makes perfect and you want to explore it with him.

Keep a sense of humor and don’t stress about being perfect. Casual mansex should be relaxed and fun.

Thanks man I appreciate that