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  1. jrndy49

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    so i met this guy that seems real cool, i know hes gonna want to fuck me when we go out on thursday ive been with girls before but ive only been with one guy and am nervous. i only did oral with the other guy i was with. Im also extremely nervous just thinking about everything. any tips on nervousness, pointers for having anal for the first time?
     
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    Don't let him force you into anything you are not comfortable with. If you only like doing oral, just do that for now and when you are ready to take the next level with him, then go for it. Its your body, so the final choice is up to you...
     
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    I agree %100 with RyoDave.



    Have you ever had any anal with a toy? It's kind of something you need to warm yourself up to. The Anus is the only muscle in your body that is naturally clenched. Be sure to use plenty of lube and relax your body. Take it slow, allow yourself to adjust to the toy or penis as it's going to be a new feeling for you. If it hurts then you need to stop and slow down. With practice you'll get the feel for how to go about taking it. Don't try to screw like a porn star you're first time around ;) If you can try warming up with a small toy. If you finger make sure that the nails are cut and filed if possible to avoid getting cut by a finger nail.

    **I would suggest talking with him if you do end up having sex so that he knows to be gentle. And if he's unwilling to be patient with you then he's not worth it.


    just remember

    Relax
    use plenty of lube
    and have fun

    If you aren't enjoying it then move on to something else until you're more used to anal. You have A-LOT of time to perfect it.. it's not important for you to be a pro on the first try. =]

    **Some lubes work better than others it's up to you to play around with them and see which you like best. Some do well with silicone lubes others do better with water based. I personally use astroglid in the gel form and find it to work pretty well.
     
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    gay sex isn't defined as anal. don't let someone fool you. enjoy what you want to try but don't feel pressured.
     
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