hey guys, i'm just kind of nervous. wait that's a lie i am a nervous wreck. i have been talking to this guy for a while and he sounds really sweet and perfect. now i'm going over to his house tonight and he says he wants me to stay the night. i'm not an idiot. i know what that means. i am an anal virgin though and i don't know what to say if he wants to go there and if i'm not ready. any advice? should i just let him? will it hurt? help me!!!!