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Hey guys, I want to get an idea of how many gay men's first sexual experiences happened in these sort of unconventional ways. As an adult, I always felt a bit jealous of those whose first experiences happened with others their age. The sleepover, while playing video games, at parties with supposedly straight guys. I was introduced to sex with much older guys at my gym in the sauna when I was 15. For three years I came there and cruised for hand jobs and blow jobs, nothing else and it never left the sauna. Have any other guys shared this experience? I find it to be quite unique because while I have been able to maintain some semblance of a "normal" sex life (by this I mean casual sex with people my own age), I still cruise for sex in public places on occasion and, sadly, I find it to be more exciting than the sort of casual sex with guys you'd meet at bars, or through dating apps.
Did any other men start out this way? Did it leave a residual effect in your desire or lust into adulthood? For those who had more normal introductions to sex, how do you feel about cruising and anonymous hook ups?
Did any other men start out this way? Did it leave a residual effect in your desire or lust into adulthood? For those who had more normal introductions to sex, how do you feel about cruising and anonymous hook ups?