first time help

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  1. MokeMan

    MokeMan New Member

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    I'm from Europe. I'm a virgin. I tried having sex with my girlfriend, she wanted me to put condom on but it's hard to maintain hardness with a condom on. I have big girth, its 6 inches around, I used Trojan magnums but I compared those magnums to U.S. magnums and their diameter is smaller but they are more flexible. I tried Durex elite at home and, it is very hard to pull on, but when I succeed I can maintain an erection. I still have to try it with her. What are your advises about that situation? Also one thing, I cannot be fully hard with her, I assume that is due to anxiety, I'm about 90% hard, but that's just from foreplay. Should i expect me to be fully hard when we start having penetration?
     
  2. D_Richard Lugie

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    you will probably be fully hard during penetration. I just lost my virginity two months ago or so, and i am really hard when she does oral on me, then i lose it a bit when i do oral on her, but then like as soon as i put it in, her vagina clenches on my dick, and i get fully hard.

    Just don't worry about it. Relax and have fun, you learn and get better the more you try.
     
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    is she also a virgin?
    are you using condoms for birth control only or STDs too?
    here in the states we have magnum L and XL, do you have XL there?
     
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    thanks man, I just needed to hear that. We still haven't done oral, I didn't let her do it to me without me doing it to her. But she wasn't shaved so I couldn't. :(
     
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    She is not a virgin. We have one size magnums here and we plan to use condoms for birth control.
     
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    Lots of guys with really big dicks have a difficult time getting super hard. I've had several partners who use(d) Viagra to remedy the situation. "Google" condoms and you will find many vendors. I don't know what brand they used but guys who were too big for Magnum XL were able to find comfortable brands. I think they were named Sevins.
     
  7. D_Richard Lugie

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    Yea no problem man. Its fun! Especially if you are doing it with a woman that you love! :)! I will say this though, if her bush isnt too bad, you can still do oral on her. My gf has a bush, just really small, and no hair around her vagina, just on top lol, so I do oral on her, and she does it on me, she likes to do it with candy lubricant/massage, its pretty good for both of us! :cool:
     
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    @arkfarmbear Im not superbig, Im 7.5 inches long and 6 inches girth, I can get superhard when I watch porn, but somehow I cannot with her. I know now we should try it without condoms cause where I live, online buying is not an option...
    @scubadave we will try having sex 2 days from now, if we fail, we will still do oral session (shaved or not) , so I'll let u know how that passed. :)
    question for all of u, should I shave my balls? :)
     
  9. D_Richard Lugie

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    hahaha good enough! little tip, lick various parts of the vagina, see what she likes most, and ask her too!

    Also, you can try if you want, maybe surprise your gf with it, or just ask her if she wants you too. Be open and honest with each other!
     
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    if only forbirth control Try lambskins. Very roomy.
     
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