First time in just a moment...

[whiteorb2]

Hey guys! In about 20 minutes I'm heading out to meet a friend at his house. We're both bi-curious and have decided to meet up and try a few things out. I'm more active and he gets turned on by being passive... so we'll see what happens. It will be my first time period, both having sex and doing it with another guy. Wish me luck! I'll post here after and let you know how it went.

 

[bijockfl]

Awesome enjoy look forward to the "juicy" details and pics

 

[D_Terry_Tugnuts]

Good luck! Your first time with another guy is memorable... please share!

 

[whiteorb2]

Okay! First of all, it was a great experience and I'm glad I went through with it (almost bailed out on my way there!).

I took the subway, got off near his house and met him near the station. We took a semi-awkward walk to his house and took our coats off when we got in. I was trying to do some small-talk to ease up the mood. We've known each other for a long time but he's been abroad so I have not met him in some time. Anyways, we had a lot of stuff to talk about.

We hadn't decided exactly what we would be doing, so after a while I asked what he wanted to do. He was pretty open about it so I undid my belt and said something like 'Well, I guess we can just get going then!'. He got on his knees, pulled down my underwear, and started sucking my dick (which was already pretty hard).

It's kind of an ethereal feeling. Warm and moist I guess. I say ethereal because I could kind of feel his hands and mouth on my dick but also not. When I closed my eyes it was more of a general wet/warm/pleasureable feeling on my dick, I had to look down to see exactly what was going on. It was nice! Maybe a little too much teeth and pressing down on my foreskin, but my dick felt good in his mouth, especially when he took it slightly deeper and just sucked on it while it was still, playing with his tongue on my glans.

I realize I had probably expected the actual pleasure-sensation to be stronger. It was a nice plateau of pleasure, and I was hard the entire time, but I felt it would take a VERY long time for me to come like that, if I could come at all. He said he wanted to try getting my jizz in his mouth and swallowing, so I said I could try to whack it until I was on the edge. I stood up and did so while he sucked on my balls. I stopped when I felt I was about to come, and sat down to let him continue. But I still wasn't coming, and he said his jaw was getting tired. He eventually said it was all right and I didn't have to come. We ended it there as I was not too interested in sucking him. Then we hung out for a while and just caught up on some stuff, and I was off home again.

In the end, I'm not at all turned off to the idea of getting blown by a guy, and I'm sure we can do it even better if we try again. I really like the idea of coming in his mouth, preferably without having to whack it at all. We talked a little more just now and agreed that it was a nice experience and that we would try it again.

Any feedback appreciated!

 

[B_Sweetcar]

I'll give you some feedback from my experiences and I'll keep it brief. I had a good friend that was pretty careless about keeping his pants buttoned and his fly zipped up. I saw a bit of his and his pubic hair on a number of occaisions when we were hanging out. Of course this Turned me On like hell and I became obsessed with seeing his dick. I did see it eventually and now he's my boy friend, but it was years before we ever did anything sexually.

A few years ago he got very sick and we didn't do anything for a long time. I missed the contact and saw some ads on the internet about escorts. I finally contacted on in my area. He was a young black guy from the city that advertised a 10" dick....I called him and set up a date. First time I was very nervous and almost called it off. Didn't know what to expect and worried I'd get ripped off. Well, we met at a hotel, he knocked at the door and I let him in. He put his "blackberry" on the dresser and took his pants off. He was freeballing and he DID have a really big dick. Anyway, it turned out OK and I called him a few more times. It was fun!

 

[Novaboy]

Your friend was certainly lucky to have your big dick to suck on. Did he know how big you were before you started? Did he comment? Glad you had fun.

 

[whiteorb2]

I did show him some pictures before so he knew what he was getting into. I'm interested if anyone has any comments about how long it usually takes for them to come from a pure BJ. Is it just a matter of time or can there be a situation where there's just not enough stimulation?

 

[rbkwp]

Sounds like its all taking a natural course, and at a decent pace for you both.
in a short time it will lead to the next stage i feel sure.
Seems both you guys are mature enuf, and handling things with decent respect for each other.

My % was probably similar to yours with my experiences, and tbh we were both pretty relaxed re it all, as you guys appear to be, he being the more experienced, despite being several years younger

Some dont cum from Bjs, i certainly dont .. sooooooo perhaps try other methods of stimulation, ask him his preference as well

Suggest you could let it develop at its own pace matey
ALL the BEST to you both.

 

[iron_mike]

Thats a very nice cock bro! did he take it all in his mouth? did u get to suck on his?

 

[skibug]

First I want to say whiteorb2 you look awesome and he was so lucky to have you!

Its sounds like a wonderful time for you both...Im sure it will happen again and I bet you will cum in his mouth without jacking too.
I think being your first time "nerves" plays a big role, but now that you know what to expect and how aweome it is and your more comfortable with him it will be so fantastic...Im sure it already has happened....

 

[TastyFox]

You have a beautiful cock and your story made me wet. You also sound like a truly NICE guy---and no amount of size can help a guy if he is an asshole.

Your encounter sounds very sexy and like you and your friend will be enjoying some hot times in the coming months. Lots of guys I know take a long time to cum or do not cum at all. Usually, I have found a correlation---the longer they take to cum, the longer/more stamina they have in bed---which is great for a woman. I know several guys with big dicks who say they never or rarely cum from a bj. I still try my best anyway!

 

[Silvertip]

... I'm interested if anyone has any comments about how long it usually takes for them to come from a pure BJ. Is it just a matter of time or can there be a situation where there's just not enough stimulation?

From my experience it varies a great deal from individual to individual. I've sucked some guys who come very quickly from purely receiving a BJ and I've known others who never come from oral stimulation alone. For me it has far more to do with my own mental stimulation than from the physical sensations I receive while being sucked.

I never have been much for just lying back and receiving a blow job, in fact sometimes it's hard for me to just maintain an erection in that situation. But if I'm watching some porn that I find particularly hot the combination of the two, porn and blow job, can quite easily bring me to orgasm.

Better still is if I'm with a woman who I particularly love to please, or a guy whose cock really turns me on, then I can come to orgasm quite readily in a 69 session. Of course in that situation it's not just that they are sucking my cock but that I am receiving that oral attention during my own heightened sense of arousal due to my also giving them pleasure.

I've also had a few encounters where I received a blow job in a risky, semi-public setting and was able to cum rather quickly. In that case, just the thrill of doing something naughty in an environ where it wouldn't normally be expected was enough to heighten my sense of arousal. So I'd say search your own sexual psyche to find something that will put you in a more aroused state to begin with and then maybe you can experience the transcendent thrill of an orally induced orgasm.