First Time Massage

Are you looking for a real massage because your muscles are sore? If so, that’s not the site. The vast majority of the guys are not licensed, or even trained. In my experience, if you want a massage, find a proper therapist. If you want some sexy fun, find an escort. I’ve found that erotic massages are neither here nor there. Usually a lackluster massage with cursory hand job at the end, with guys that are not particularly skilled at either.

Regarding descriptions, therapeutic = non sexual, sensual = extra focus on your glutes and crotch that are typically off limits in a therapeutic massage, erotic = a therapist that is naked and allows you to feel him up during the session and could include a happy ending. This is a general description and individual therapists may vary. Always best to ask beforehand.
 
As someone who used to do MT my advice is to start with therapeutic massage just to see if you like it. Try different masseurs who offer different kinds of massage. Discover which you like best. Keep it non-sexual. Get used to someone with whom you do not have an intimate relationship working on your body.

If you do decide to go sensual you might consider someone who offers tantric massage. It's a type of erotic massage with full body sensual and sexual stimulation but the goal is not orgasm--everything up to but not including orgasm.

You might come anyway--it happens--but both you and the therapist are fully committed to avoiding it. There are rules. Penetration--oral and otherwise--is out. So is kissing of any kind. It's hands on body or body on body only. Eyes are closed, breathing is slow and you are deep in meditation keenly aware of your entire body. It's sexually therapeutic without orgasm.