So a series of events have happened which look like they might lead to my first experience with another guy. It's something I've wanting to do for quite some time now and the guy is quite cool, nice and seems very understanding. However, I'm quite nervous about it as it gets closer to the weekend. For example, if I'm thinking about it and I happen to be eating I'm immediatly put off eating and my stomach starts to knot. One might think this sounds like I'm just not interested but it's just my usual reaction when I'm nevrous - the same thing happens when I have an upcoming flight that I'm thinking of or lately, if an aftershock happens to roll through. Those situations are unavoidable so I just do my best to ignore them and carry on. In this case though, it would be quite easy for me to let the nerves get the better of me and just cancel and that's something I don't want to do. Silly question, but anyone else gone through a simillar thing? How'd you get around it?