First Time Sex With A Gay

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I have a godson of 22 years, very hot, and has been suggesting that he wants to have sex with me for 1 year, he is not gay, he is bisexual because of what I think, I am a man older than 48 years, but very athletic. What would you do
 
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are you openly gay with him? that is he's not just jesting and joking with you but knows your gay and is actually interested?

even if you go for it with this 'hot' young man, as he's your godson, you have to consider wider implications? What would his parents, presumably friends or relatives of you?? think about you having sex with their son? what would that do to your friendship?

if you're his god parent you've been around him all of his life? so why not talk to him properly about who he is, what he wants, and why it wouldn't be a good idea for him to have sex with you?

if he's an actual relative of yours then that's pretty fucked up isn't it? porn with brothers/uncles etc having sex with sons/each other is mostly not real.
 
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Some years ago when he was 18, he approached me and chose me to be his godfather since in his family they do not care much about him, I am not a friend of the family, only of him and he clearly knows that I am gay
 
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that does make a difference, you should have made that clear at the start!!

then talk with him, find out where he's at, is he ready for such a step with you, or anyone else, consider what it may do to your friendship and how he sees you.

I'm 54 with a 23 yo bf so its not an age thing, but do consider very carefully where this will lead you both and how it will impact on you both.

however, don't have sex with him just because you think he's 'hot' that sounds a bit like taking advantage of him?
 

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Some years ago when he was 18, he approached me and chose me to be his godfather since in his family they do not care much about him, I am not a friend of the family, only of him and he clearly knows that I am gay

It sounds like he really needs a stable adult figure in his life and as such, if you really do care about him, you should keep the relationship strictly paternal.

Sex is most likely going to complicate the situation and potentially make things awkward to the point that you will lose contact with him.
 
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It sounds like he really needs a stable adult figure in his life and as such, if you really do care about him, you should keep the relationship strictly paternal.

Sex is most likely going to complicate the situation and potentially make things awkward to the point that you will lose contact with him.
That is what I think. Thank you
 
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