O.k. I have always been with a average size guy. Today I hooked up with a friend. I had no ideal what he had untill it was too late. I am 5' 4in and 135lbs. He is packing 9in. We played for awhile and then he slid it in. oh my it HURT I held onto his legs pushing him back cause he was hitting me inside and it hurt. don't get me wrong I loved every minute of it but now hours latter I hurt inside. Think he brused something inside. Any ideals on how to keep this from happening next time? postions or lubes ANYthing to HELP????? Thank you, Loving the pain during but not the pain afterwards.