My first time I can't post here because of the rules, but if you want to pm me I can share it with you.
My first time that it wasn't just "sex", where there was an actual emotional connection, and to this day I still consider to be one of the best nights of my life, happened when I was 21 and he was 23 I believe.
I was a truck driver out of St. Louis (still am) and about every week and a half I'd take a load down to Tulsa Oklahoma and pickup a load in a small town about 50 miles east of Tulsa to bring back. There was a bbq place in that town that had truck parking and damn good food so I always ate there and that's where he worked and how we met. I was normally there during off peak times and would always talk with him with that eventually leading to him taking his break and eating with me if he hadn't taken his break yet. This was 1988, before cell phones and the internet were prevalent, and you had to pay for long distance phone calls on your land line so our communication was fairly limited. On this particular trip they had an unusual snow storm for Oklahoma and I wound up getting a motel room for the night and when I was eating I invited him to the bar at the motel for a beer after he got off work and he accepted the invitation. While we were in the bar an older guy that he knew joined us for a few beers and then all 3 of us went back to my room for a few more. Prior to this he and I had never discussed our sexuality with each other and while I did have hopes I pretty much figured that this 3rd guy was going to fuck up any possibilities I may have had. It comes time that the cock blocker said he had to leave and he offered my friend a ride home. Until that moment I didn't know my friend was without a car at the time, so I quickly said that if he wanted to stay and have a couple more beers that I could give him a ride in my big truck in the morning so he agreed to stay. After the other guy leaves we sat there having some small talk but it was kind of obvious that there was something on both of our minds that neither one of us was saying. Finally he says I need to tell you something and I hope it doesn't create a problem, and then he tells me that he is gay. At that time homosexuality wasn't nearly as accepted as it is now, but I didn't let him sit there worried that he was about to get his ass kicked, I quickly responded that I was not only okay with that but that I was bi. We both smiled and kind of started touching each other when he suggested that we take a shower, to which I said together? And he replied that that's what he was hoping. We stood up and got undressed, once we were naked we checked each other out and wound up embracing and passionately kissing each other! I had never kissed another man before this, and even though I had fooled around with a few guys before, kissing was taboo, even repulsive. I know, kind of strange to play with and suck a guys dick but find kissing him to be repulsive. I guess that was because with previous guy's it was just sex with no emotional connection. With Tom it just felt so right, natural, and wonderful! After a few minutes of deep kissing and rubbing and groping our naked bodies he breaks away and says let's get in the shower. We get in the shower and start washing each other facing one another when he tells me to turn around and he'll wash my back. As his hands move down my back I feel him washing my butt and then I feel his hand between my cheeks washing my crack, damn it was feeling good! This was all a first for me, up until then I had never shared an intimate shower with anyone, male or female. Next thing I feel is him pulling me back into his body, and while playing with my ass, proceeds to start nuzzling my neck and jacking me off, fuck that felt good! It didn't take long, and I tried to stop him, but I shot a helluva load! After I recovered from one of the best orgasms of my life, we kissed some more, finished our shower and moved to the bed. In bed we made out, sucked each other, and he proceeded to do things to my body that I had never experienced before. He licked and sucked on my my nipples, and while sucking on my dick went down and reemed my ass! Damn that felt fucking great! That night I learned many new things about my body and the sensations you can feel or give to someone else. We both came 3 times that night, he tried to bottom for me but we were both inexperienced and that didn't work out. After that we got together a few more times, but like I said earlier, this was before cell phones and the internet and we lost contact with each other. I hope he is doing well and I would love to reconnect with him, but I don't see that ever happening. I would like for it to, but I doubt it will ever happen.