first time with another man?

[RadioRandy]

Hi all, I'm pretty new here, and part of this post was in my new member thread, I just thought it might be more appropriate here...

I'm a 22 year old guy, and I am about average, 6" in length and oh-so-close to 6 in girth, (5.9) I know I don't qualify as one of the massive behomoths that roam this site, but I'm damn glad to have what I've got

I've been considered 'straight' all my life, but really would like to try something with another man. I don't know how to approach the subject, or if the equipment I've got will be...uhhh good for the situation? I'm sure there are men out there having great sex who are far worse off on the equipment size than me, but I'm curious as to what the other men on this site think - and also if you might be able to give a first timer some tips...or maybe share some of your first time experiences...good or bad?

I've attached some photos (the same as in my profile) for those that cant see full size

-Randy

http://www.lpsg.org/attachments/new...78d1179051201-never-been-spain-but-i-bott.jpg
http://www.lpsg.org/attachments/new...779d1179051334-never-been-spain-but-i-tp2.jpg
http://www.lpsg.org/attachments/new...d1179051334-never-been-spain-but-i-mirror.jpg

 

[masks]

RadioRandy, you have nothing to be ashamed about - That thing is huge!!! As far as men are concerned, just go with the flow. What will be will be!

 

[MegaDick]

Randy,
Are you serious? You are above average in every department -- penis, body, looks and masculinity. If there are problems, they won't be due to what you bring to the table, err, bed. (LOL)

The nemesis of any first time sexual experience is nervousness. I would advise you not to have your first experience with a virtual stranger. Take the time to get to know someone enough that you feel comfortable with him -- even if you aren't interested in pursuing a relationship.

I don't publicize my experiences, but if you're really interested, pm me and I'll answer any questions you may have.

Mega

 

[EdWoody]

Seriously, Randy, any man would be thrilled to have you anywhere near him. So don't worry about that aspect.

And MegaDick is right - try to find someone who knows and understands that this is a big deal for you, and who will take the time to introduce you to it properly. Nothing's worse than someone who will take advantage of your gay-virgin status by slam-bang-thankyou-man and go.

My first-time experiences (as I count three, for various reasons) were nothing to write home about at all. First was high-school fumbling with a straight boy. Second was "get rid of this damned virginity with the first guy who comes along." Third, the other guy was the one who messed up by shooting in like 3 seconds. My example is not one to be followed.

 

[RadioRandy]

Thanks guys, I really appreciate all the large penis support that goes on here, lol. You guys are more supportive than my first cup

 

[rickster235]

You look pretty big there's nothing to be afraid of. I remember my first time was with my best friend and we were alone in his house watching porn and he asked me if I had ever done stuff with a guy. I told him no and he asked if I wanted too and I did. And I did and i don't regret me and him still can remember that

 

[ledroit]

Hi Randy--and welcome to the group. You've got balls, in addition to a nice cock! that first pic with the coke bottle is fantastic, and every gay bottom I've been with says that girth is more important than length when it comes to anal sex.

But for me at least, straight or gay, what really matters in another guy is whether he has balls. And by that I mean guts, integrity, courage, and the ability to do something instead of just thinking about it. So hats off to you for even thinking about experimenting with sex between guys. That takes guts. No matter what happens, I think that is the kind of stuff that makes people real, and I think it takes even more balls for a straight guy or a bisexual to do it than a purely gay guy.

The straight guys I admire most and seem the most balanced are the ones who are not afraid either of gays or gay sex. I have had 4 very close straight guys for 20 yrs, and all of them have either had some kind of exploratory or experimental sex or intimacy with other guys., or had either me or other gay guys fall in love with them. I sometimes feel even closer to them than I do with my gay friends. Maybe for the same reason straight guys can sometimes have closer friendships with gay guys than they can with women or other straight men.

Back to the question of sex, though. I'm about 5.8" thick, and a little over 6.5 long, so am not that big either. But I've had a number of guys who say that it was the perfect size for them if they are bottoming, including my current partner who was a complete top before me. I think the only disadvantage is that you can't be quite as lazy if you've got a bottom with a very muscular or a big ass. Maybe this is what makes my partners cum more easily, though--that I have to get them in a good position to get the prostate, and that I am not too thick to cause them much discomfort during sex.

I don't think you can generalize about these things too much, though. The most important thing is chemistry, and that can be pretty unpredictable. The bottom line with guys (at least in my case) is that it is not just the outside show that catches my attention. What I like is when what is inside matches or even beats what is outside. That is what makes me want to become or remain a guy's friend, regardless of anything else.

 

[vince]

I'm new here too Randy and your post is cool cuz I'm in the same situation. So I don't have any advice for ya.

I live and work in Turkey so my friends are all Muslim and quite macho. I have a close friend at work who is a really friendly, dominate male, the same as me. Ali is handsome, with a big frame and lean muscle. We're both the really hung down below, I can see the bulges in his pants and mine is pretty obvious in boxers and jeans .

We've joked around about having three or four girls for a house party this summer and it turns me on to think about fucking them with Ali. I think I'd like to do something with him. I've never done this kind of thing before. I thought about it, but this time I'd like to. Having some women together and masterbasting each other would be great. His huge, warm hand wrapped fully around my 7.5 x 6.5 would feel sexy I think.

Males here touch each other here much more than in the West. It is a friendly, close thing, but all the way male. It is nice.

I have been totally hetero in practice 'til now, I love women. I like touching them, smelling them, fucking them. But like said I have had thoughts about men. Does this make me Bi or gay? I dunno. sex is sex I guess.

I think am just gonna have this party and see what happens.

Thanks for listening
vince

 

[RadioRandy]

Ledroit - thanks, you're the man...no doubt. I'm pretty sure you're right, and I think if I'd just let things happen naturally they would work themselves out. It just sometimes seems a little foreign I suppose.

Vince - I don't think it necessarily makes you Bi so much as it does open minded and honest with yourself like Ledroit had said. The Greeks layed with one another before and after battle to strengthen the bond between one another - It doesn't make you bi, it might not even make you bi-curious, but what it does make you is honest with yourself.

We all know its not good to contain emotions.

 

[vince]

Thanks Randy- I agree, "strengthening the bond" seems like a natural next step. The bond is real close now, and you hit the nail on the head.

Ledroit yer post made me want to write in. Thanks man.

 

[CUBE]

Ledroit...well said. And RadioRandy..ok...you need to wrap your head around the fact that you are a total package. Masculine, very cute, nice build, well hung. Be careful out there young man