First Time with current girlfriend

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  1. porkchops86

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    Mods, sorry if this is posted in the wrong section.

    Hi guys, im currently in a moral dilemma.

    My girlfriend and i going to take it to the next step hopefully this weekend.

    She is 19.

    The thing is that she is on the pill, and says that we dont need to use a condom.

    however i'm worried for both of our sakes i.e. STI's etc.

    What should we do?

    cheers,

    PC86
     
  2. B_DEATHbyCARROT

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    Never trust someone else for birth control/safe sex. It is your responsibility (both sides should look at it this way). Sorry but it really is that cut and dry...
     
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    Talk it out with her, if you're planning on bringing your relationship to the sexual level, you should be able to communicate with eachother honestly. If you can't now, it could (and probably will) bring you problems in the future.

    If you want to wear a condom, talk to her about it, talk to her about your concerns, have her talk to you about hers, opening up to eachother will probably make the experience more close and intimate.

    Hope that helps. Good Luck!
     
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    Use a condom. If you're committed to one another, use condoms until getting tested.
     
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    Unless you have both had HIV tests waited 90 days and got tested again and are in a monogamous relationship. I'd say don't do it. Let's not even thing about all the other STDs that you can't be tested for...
     
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    It never hurts to be sure. Go with the condom.
     
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    Use a condom if you are at all uneasy, and in general you should use one even of you weren't.

    She will understand and respect your wishes. If she doesn't then she wasn't good GF material anyway.
     
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    Wear the condom dude. If she throws a hissy-fit, then you don't wanna fuck her anyway...trust me.

    ...OB
     
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    porkchops86, there is no question. Wear a condom, always, no matter what; until you are married and want children! :cool:
     
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    go raw
     
  12. DarkPhantom

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    Don't listen to:



    Listen to wise men as:

    and woman



    Lots of individual opinions here, but still, use a condom until both are tested and proven clean. After that it is another matter to discuss with your partner if you should continue using condom, something else or not at all.

    //Krisse
     
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    Take the dirt road
     
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    Not to rag on you buddy, but what exactly is an STI??? :wink:
     
  15. DarkPhantom

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    Sexual Transmitted Infection ?? Who knows :smile:. Anyway I think he means STD's if you know that one :wink:
     
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    Sun Trust International isn't worried about whether or not you wear a condom... they are worried about your financial future son... how diverse is your portfolio?
     
  17. D_Geffarde Phartsmeller

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    USE A CONDOM!!!! Not even just for the STD prevention. My cousin's g/f was "on the pill" and 9 months later had his child. She lied and purposely wanted to get pregnant because he was going to break-up with her. Good times. Anyway, alot of factors influence the effectiveness of the pill. If she's on other meds, if she missed a dosage, if she's ill. While the commercials say it's 99% effective, the reality is closer to 92%. Hah I paid attention in sex-ed class! Absolutely no reason not to use a condom and increase your protection against pregnancy.
     
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    Wear a condom. Someone once said to me getting pregnant is the best thing that can happen from unprotected sex (obviously meaning STIs are much worse!)

    Sexually Transmitted Infection. Its the term used in the UK now to make the issue seem more approachable.
     
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    yeah what she says here is some pretty good advice :biggrin1:
     
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    Over in Australia we have converted from STD to STI to make the issue more 'manageable' in sex ed classes... dunno y?
     
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