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Hey guys. I have been on 3 dates with this guy so far and feel we may be close to some bed room action. I was wondering if you had advice to make the first time with a new guy great? I am more bottom and to do everything I can to make it best experience. Btw I also haven't bottomed for a guy on over two years so pretty tight here also.
 
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It goes without saying that it's probably better to have your next date at your place where you can have the time and equipment to douche and have a meal that will agree with your bowels.

The other thing I would advise is to spend some time with your toys before the day to loosen things up a bit so you can transition to hard fucking more quickly. It will give you more confidence when the time comes. It also give you a chance to see if you have any allergic reactions to the lube you are going to use.
 
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Be flexible and open-minded when the time comes. You don't know what he likes so it's difficult to prepare for the unknown. He might be into kinky sh*t. Hopefully he's a top, or at least versatile. Lastly, douche, douche, and douche some more.
 

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It goes without saying that it's probably better to have your next date at your place where you can have the time and equipment to douche and have a meal that will agree with your bowels.

The other thing I would advise is to spend some time with your toys before the day to loosen things up a bit so you can transition to hard fucking more quickly. It will give you more confidence when the time comes. It also give you a chance to see if you have any allergic reactions to the lube you are going to use.

I dont have much experience with douching. I usually just shower and clean deeply with fingers. Any tips? IN regards to playing with toys wouldnt it be better to be tight and have him loosen me up?
 

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Be flexible and open-minded when the time comes. You don't know what he likes so it's difficult to prepare for the unknown. He might be into kinky sh*t. Hopefully he's a top, or at least versatile. Lastly, douche, douche, and douche some more.

I know hes more a top from the profile he has when we first started talking.
 

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I dont have much experience with douching. I usually just shower and clean deeply with fingers. Any tips? IN regards to playing with toys wouldnt it be better to be tight and have him loosen me up?

If he is average in length, then the quick method should be fine.

In regards to tightness, it really depends on how big he is and how easily you are able to loosen up. Yes, in a perfect world it would be nice to have him woo your clam open but if he plans to just shuck you open then it it might not be so fun and more prone to tearing.