It's funny, my first time I didn't even look at it before letting him enter me; it was a dark, under the covers, spur-of-the-moment type thing after messing around for a couple hours first. He was my first serious boyfriend, and I was 16. I remember "Going to California" playing while it happened. He was about average width, 5 1/2" long, perfect for the first time. Only it was his first time, too, and despite taking it real slow, he came on probably the fifth or sixth thrust. Oh my God, it was one of the best sensations in the world for me, too... Needless to say, we made up for its brevity many times subsequent to that night.