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  1. swordfishME

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    A friend of mine is getting married soon and both he and his future wife are virgins. He is average in length and girth so I had a talk with him and told him he should not have any problems. The issue is that his fiancee has led him to believe that she does not masturbate or have never pleasured herself (she comes from a very conservative background where human sexuality, in any form, before marriage is a strict no-no). Given that this is the first time anything is going to penetrate her and she is a non-athletic waif, I was hoping that the women on this board will have some advise that I can pass on to my friend for his wedding night
     
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    Well, I've never been with a virgin, so I'm of little help there, but I just wanted to say that I think it's very sweet of you to post this for your friend, and I'm sure that his future wife will appreciate the result of the info that you get here.
     
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    Honestly i dont think there is much you can tell her. Even though she may not have had sex she must have a good i dea of what to expect. It is easy to say she hasnt masturbated but being old enough to marry i would say she has in some way, shape or form masturbated even if it wasnt to orgasm.

    Just tell your friend not to forget the lube..For a virgin thats the most important thing. And to realise she dosent have to act like a porn star, keep it simple and fun
     
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    Lube, and slow movements, try not to jam it in there... that hurts the first time round.
     
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