My wife and I just got married and we were both virgins. We talked a lot about sex before we got married and promised we would communicate. We it has been over a month, and while the sex is great for me.. she is not getting much out of it. She says she does not know what feels good.. so she does not know what to tell me. I have tried to concentrate on her at the start and not enter right at the beginning.. but i just have not hit on anything yet....I can last a good while without coming but she usually just tells me she is ok and to go ahead... any suggestions? Also.. she seemed to lose some sex drive when she started taking birth control pills 6 months ago.. anyone hear of that effect? Anything would be helpful... thanks.