Goal: Help me brainstorm, how do I take advantage of well, for lack of a better word my "advantage" over other men? This post might be more of a venting exercise for me than something that yields any solution. Intro: Hello everybody, it's my first post. Glad to find this community b/c I am not sure I can have an open dialogue like the one I am about to propose with anyone I know. :redface: I have tried, I just don't think anyone wants to hear about it. My profile is basic so here is a thumbnail of me: Straight, Tall (6'4"), cute, funny like Steve Martin-ish, Goofy, intelligent, and in the spirit of the forums I am 8.7" length and 6.8" Girth. Do I think I am big? Yes, one girlfriend had longer partners, but no partners said anyone had more girth. Maybe they lied, no big deal, I think I got enough to handle as it is. Issues? Penile fracture twice, sometimes I tear my partner's vagina, Magnums can break annoyingly often. Lube is always on hand just in case, 1/2 my partners have needed 2-3 days break between sexual partay time But, at least no one is afraid of it, some of the posts seem to tell stories of fear lol, fear the giant penis! Reactions? Fascination, omg you are big blah blah, obsessions, one night stands always try to come back for more, I don't want to do anal, but they seem to voluntarily tell me don't even try it (I guess to make sure I don't ask). Girlfriends brag about it, get drunk and go on long diatribes about it, which is no big deal I suppose. Anyway for those who read this far... I get jealous of women because if, for instance, they have large breasts, which I compare to penis size in my mind, they can show off, I can't! So, I go about my life and have pretty good success asking women out. Sometimes after a date or two though, they are uncomfortable with my goofy, funny personality. I am not a macho man, I don't pretend to be cool, etc. and this I think is different than what they are used to, plus I am perfectly happy with the idea someone might not like me enough to sleep with me, but I wonder if those few knew the fun they could have, if it would change their mind? I am free to be myself in large part because I am a happy person, I am a bit silly and like to laugh alot, but also because I know that when or if we get naked it will be like their favorite christmas or birthday all over again. Yippee I hit the penis lottery Detour comment: sometimes I actually rush to the sex not only out of pure lust, but because I know that is an asset I have. No one I have had sex with has ended the relationship quickly, the penis factor at a bare minimum fascinates them for at least a couple months (this is simplifying things, but you get the picture) So, back on track, any ideas on how to subtly communicate what I bring to the table without doing something I won't, like talk about it? I mean basically I think a guy with a big dick who is intelligent, cool, and not an asshole is the same as a cool chick with big breasts, most every guy would like to have sex with her even if they don't plan on marrying her, etc. I am dating around now, but was wondering if I could leverage my asset into going for more variety in partners and if anyone had any stories to share or whatever. Thanks for letting me vent, g-night!