Fisting my GF, Tips???

D_Alma Lovin

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Recently I have started to test my Girlfriends limits. It started at a few trips to the local sex shop and we have been slowly buying larger toys. I have been trying the last few weeks to fist her and for the most part she is taking it well. Although I am short, 5'6" I have large thick hands and am having a problem getting past my knuckles. I am making sure that I start slow, I usually get her going by going down on her. I use three fingers to start spreading her open and I increase to four. I apply a generous amount of lube and I attempt to insert the fist but I get caught up at the knuckles. She keeps asking for more and I try but I don't want to hurt her. I think I am doing it right but, any one have any tips?
 

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Use latex gloves, make sure your fingernails are cut/filed/trimmed, use lots of lube and go very slowly.

Try using a vibrator on her and keep going slow and use toys first and she will tell you when it's too much. Apparently fisting takes a lot of time and you should have your hand in the right position.
 

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Read a guide on how to do it. Obey the guide. You can easily download such things via torrents in e-book sections.
 

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I had one girl who could take my hand inside her. Not really fisting like in porn, but after a good hard fuck, I could work 4 fingers in her gaping pussy without a problem. Then one time I forced my thumb in and she had a monster orgasm. After that I would do five fingers until I finally got my hand in past the thumb to the wrist (tons of lube and maybe a half hour of working her). Once I got to the wrist she just grabbed my arm and told me not to move. She was squirting and having one orgasm after the other. I didn't move my hand at all, I just kept it there. Of course, I did have to take my hand out and that was the problem. Every time I tried to slowly pull out, she'd stop me. After I did get it out, her pussy was so open. I wish I had a camera. Or a flashlight because I lost my class ring inside her (that last part was a joke)
 

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Sometimes a bit of a twisting motion helps to work it in a little further. It may not be as caught up on your knuckles as you think. When you get to that point, try twisting a little and very slowly pushing in deeper. The important thing here is that you need good communication with her about her comfort level. If she's enjoying it and wants you to go further, then keep going. But if anything feels weird or you're unsure, then stop and pull back a bit. Also remember that you have to pull out slowly too because suction can build up and it can almost feel like your hand is stuck inside.
 

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I had one girl who could take my hand inside her. Not really fisting like in porn, but after a good hard fuck, I could work 4 fingers in her gaping pussy without a problem. Then one time I forced my thumb in and she had a monster orgasm. After that I would do five fingers until I finally got my hand in past the thumb to the wrist (tons of lube and maybe a half hour of working her). Once I got to the wrist she just grabbed my arm and told me not to move. She was squirting and having one orgasm after the other. I didn't move my hand at all, I just kept it there. Of course, I did have to take my hand out and that was the problem. Every time I tried to slowly pull out, she'd stop me. After I did get it out, her pussy was so open. I wish I had a camera. Or a flashlight because I lost my class ring inside her (that last part was a joke)

I don't suppose you found my car keys in there?