Fisting your wife or girlfriend

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  1. nycencountr

    nycencountr New Member

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    Not sure if I'm posting this in the right place but here goes...

    In the past few weeks I have finally been able to get my fist all the way inside of my wife's pussy, to the wrist. I can't describe how much this turned me on. She was skeptical for a long time but once we did it she really got off. We've done it 4 times now and by the second time I was able to actually fist fuck her (back and forth). She gets really wet when we do this. I feel like I'm living a porno when I get to do it. The great thing is that afterwards when I put my cock in, it feels just like it always did, nice and tight. She like to get fucked right afterwards, she says she likes the way the soreness feels.

    I've never met anyone else who has done this, has anyone else experienced fisting? would love to hear your story.
     
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    Hi, may I suggest that you go to fistforum.com

    The whole site is dedicated to fisting and a lot of people on there are full of great advice and stories.
     
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    Sounds incredibly hot mate! Pictures?
     
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    my last g/f and I got into fisting too. it took about a year to actually be able to work my full hand in to the wrist and she went wild when i did. anytime i'd ask her if she wanted it all while i was rubbing her clit, she would start to dilate in preparation. I do have to also admit it was huge turn on, and i'd be jerking off with the other hand while i fisted her.
     
  5. Bbucko

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    I've never fisted pussy, but I've fisted probably somewhere around 75 asses since I was taught by a sort of Zen master fistbottom over 28 years ago.

    It's difficult to explain to the uninitiated how incredibly intimate fisting is: you very literally have their lives in your hands: you feel their pulse and other internal rhythms against your wrist and forearm. While doing it, there's an almost spiritual sensation of joining, even with the most casual and jaded of fistbottoms.

    One thing I've noticed over the years is that there are "deep" fistbottoms and "wide" fistbottoms. Most porn shows the "deep" variety because it both extreme and quite showy, but IRL nearly all asses I've fisted have been "wide"; they have an enormous capacity but can only handle, say, up to the center of my forearm. I've only come close to the elbow once, and I've only punch-fucked once, unlike the regularity with which it's shown in porn (straight or gay, at least as far as ass-fisting is concerned)

    Fisting takes a long time, as well it should. An average session of fisting in my experience is between 3-6 hours, though in most cases you're pretty much "in" after about 45 minutes for most people. The only time it's ever gone quicker was at a party or if the bottom has already been opened up in some other fashion prior to my arrival. Most of my experiences have been with guys who've been fisting for a long time; I've only "broken in" two, and it requires an enormous amount of patience from both parties.

    For whatever reason, there's a strong psychological barrier for beginners and intermediates that I've never understood: they reach the largest portion of the hand (just below the knuckles at the thumb) with relative ease but resist going any further. Sometimes it takes quite some time before you can continue, and sometimes (especially with n00bs), that's as far as the session will take you on that occasion. The bottom is always in complete control of how fast, how deep and how long you play handball, not the top.

    Anyone attempting it should be very careful about keeping communication (verbal and non-verbal) open and continuous. This is something that needs to be done in a state of sobriety (or at least not under the influence of sedating or pain medications nor alcohol): you need both parties to be in possession of all their wits.

    ETA: The reason why I contributed to this thread is because wives and girlfriends can be ass-fisted too, just as often as not, if she's eager or curious.
     
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    Wo-hoo! Congratulations!!!

    Oh, yeah... I love fisting! :biglaugh:

    I get off so good when Infid3l fists me, and it feels good to do it to myself, too... took a while to figure out arm/body maneuvering, though (I thought my arms were to short for it for a couple of years there).

    I love the way I feel kinda swollen the day after getting a really good fisting. It's not an uncomfortable feeling, just more sensitive all over inside. It feels a bit "well used" and aroused with every move; a really hot reminder for me through the day.

    The more I get it the more I want it. We've been trying for double fisting. We usually take it easy a day or two in between times when we do really intense, stretching fisting, especially if I'm sore. Want to stay flexible, not cause damage or overdo.

    Night before last was the deepest he's ever fisted me. He went a few inches or so past his wrist in me, further than usual (we had been watching Hentai for a couple of hours before, I think I was just so uber aroused I wanted to take it all in, all I could get). It was like something just totally relaxed; so weird, but oh, felt so so good.

    Hmmm... experiences.

    Here's some. (submissivegirl83 is right- we got a lot of good stuff from that site!)

    Here's some more.

    We have videos n stuff we share, too.

    Love to help if you have any questions.

    XXX - Kristina
     
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    I've been successfully fisted. I found that for me it stopped being sexual after a while, and became more about the challenge factor. I definitely enjoyed it though - partially BECAUSE of the challenge. I think it is one of the most intimate things you can do. Being a bit of a masochist, I loved the pain and the sense that he could hurt me badly with one wrong move.


    Bbucko, much of what you said applies to vaginal fisting as well. Your post was brilliant and informative as always :smile:




    Ummm . . . do you realise that account sharing is a bannable offense? If you are not Infid31 you need to get an account of your own.
     
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    Nope! Didn't know that. I didn't see it here in the rules. Thanks.

    P.S. What a pain in the ass... we're a married couple, too bad they can't just allow us to note that like other sites / forums do. It's much easier for us to help eachother keep up with stuff going on that way, just one account. He gets questions about me that I sometimes answer, and visa-versa. We prefer sharing accounts; we trust eachother and have nothing to hide from eachother. If I set up another acct., Infid3l will have to log off as himself and log in as me to see what's up. Jeez. Besides that, most who like my stuff know they can find me by typing Infid3l. It's much easier than "Kristina".

    You know what? Fine. If it bothers you, report us and ban us. S'OK if that's how it is.

    -- Kristina
     
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  9. B_infid3l

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    I remember this "psychological barrier" was the case with me, too, back when Infid3l started trying to fist me vaginally.

    I was still in disbelief that his fist could actually fit, and I was afraid that if he went further, his hand would suddenly pop in or move or something and cause pain once it went. He moved very slowly and with care and control, though, until I got to know what to expect. After he'd gone all in a couple of times, I wasn't concerned about it any more, because I knew it wouldn't cause sudden pain like I'd been fearing.

    Absolutely agree!

    My mate's so tuned in that he will ask me if something's wrong before I even realize it, when we're really getting into it. It makes me feel free to enjoy, and be relaxed when he's fisting me.

    - Kristina
     
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    never tried, never even thought of trying. nothing against it, congrats to those who have. lol just trying to get my partner to let me slide my cock up their ass was a lot of work.
     
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    Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Just letting you know.

    Edited to add this: You'll find this rule here in the TOS.

    http://www.lpsg.org/165602-lpsg-terms-of-service-sept.html
     
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  12. D_Selmus_Swallow

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    I've got hands like hams for someone my height and weight (5'9" and around 155 lbs. usually), so it probably isn't happenin'. Attempted it on myself once or twice, and yeah, no thanks.
     
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    I'm lucky my gf loves to be fisted and I get to fuck her in the ass at the same time, she squirts everytime
     
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    had a g/f who could take my fist up to my wrist and loved me to fuck her with it. as she was cumming I slowly withdrew my hand and she would gush
     
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    The ex loved fisting, but it was hard work to get there.

    Worth it in the end though.
     
  16. RawDog

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    I've tried fisting my wife several times, but could never get past the last knuckle. This one time (not in band camp), we got close, but ended up pulling something really bad. We couldn't fuck from the pain for about two weeks after the incident.
     
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    Ouch! ROFL at the band camp joke :biggrin1:
     
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    ok, I tried.. but this thread ended up grossing me out.
     
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    Had a few girls who were up to the challenge, but I could never get my whole hand in. The first girl I tried this with came so hard from it she almost passed out. We'd been fucking for awhile and I was eating her pussy while fingering her. One finger led to two, then three. After I got my forth finger in she was squirting and grunting. I tried to work my thumb in, but couldn't get in to the wrist. After that time, we did this every time we fucked and we actually got to the point where I could work in eight fingers (both hands, no thumbs). I love the sight of her pussy afterward. Open and soaking wet. The next girl had been fisted by girls, but never a guy. Maybe my hand is a bit too wide. She said she loved the "burn" and feeling full. One other girl took four fingers along with my cock. I would do her doggy style and work in one finger at a time while fucking. Really couldn't do heavy fucking this way, but the fullness factor was such a turn on. One last one could take my fist in her ass just past my thumb knuckle. More of a twisting motion than fucking in and out.

    (I have fisted a few guys too, but that is a different thread)