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I thought about fisting while watching porn last night. How does the arm just go in the ass like that? Are you the same afterwards? What does the person being fisted feel and what does the person fisting feel for?

I'm interested in knowing, but I will never be interested in doing.
 

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i believe it's all about the stretching... and sense of being 'filled up' that a bottom appreciates about toys and dick. The stretcher isn't necessarily "reaching for anything" (pull out a rabbit an win a prize? no..) as much as watching the pleasure/pain on the bottom and trying to help him comfortably past his normal boundary to find unknown pleasures...

that's at least how I see it. I'm not sure if I'm brave enough to have a go, either.
 

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I have fisted a few guys, they seem to enjoy it a lot and their anus does close back up after awhile, but I've never gone past my wrist. I have always wondered myself what it would be like to go up to my shoulder up someone's ass. I've seen it in videos and it seems like it has to cause damage to someone's intestines.
 

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does any on remember your first ever deep tissue or shiatsu massage?
or when you were so tense and got a knot worked out of your shoulder?
that is what it feels like
but internally and on your anal muscles
heaven if you can relax enough to enjoy it
i think it's a gay thing
 

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ive been fisted several times and its great. i shoot my load about4 ft without ever touching my dick!
 

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Fisting is not "a gay thing". Just as many gay people cringe in horror at the thought of fisting as straight people.
Fisting is out on the extreme edge of sexual behaviors, far beyond kinky when catagorized by mainstream America. The ignorance is so widespread that it almost gets lumped into the perversion class with pedophilia and bestiality. Almost.
Truth is- fisting is arguably the most intimate act two people can do together. It can result in orgasmic heights that are actually life changing experiences. Fisting is life.
 

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I've been into fisting for 13 years and I can tell you from personal experience that the hole closes up and gets as tight as ever again afterward. The pleasure in getting fisted is about 30 times more intense than the pleasure of getting fucked. As a top, it is an amazing feeling to feel someone so completely from the inside. Done right, it is one of the most intense erotic connections you can have between two people. I also happen to direct fisting movies occasionally so I have some experience to draw on here. :wink:
 

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been fisted a few times, both by men and a woman. the feeling is out of this world, its hard to explain. it is so intense. will cum by nit even touching my dick while being fisted, and its especially nice with a cock in your mouth at the samevtime :)
 

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I've fisted two people, and they both loved it. I have to admit, having your hand in someone is one of the ultimate power plays. You have full control. It feels like you're rubbing a dolphin, to be honest. If you have no idea what that feels like, then I'm not sure how to explain.
 

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I thought about fisting while watching porn last night. How does the arm just go in the ass like that? Are you the same afterwards? What does the person being fisted feel and what does the person fisting feel for?

I'm interested in knowing, but I will never be interested in doing.

I cannot even IMAGINE
 

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I'm really curious about fisting also. It always looks like the bottom is practically on another plane Of existence, they are so blissed out in pleasure. Or that it just takes you to a different place in your mind with all those pleasurable sensations. It's something I'm interested to try if I meet a top who is into it and I trust to take care of me through the experience.
 

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I'm really curious about fisting also. It always looks like the bottom is practically on another plane Of existence, they are so blissed out in pleasure. Or that it just takes you to a different place in your mind with all those pleasurable sensations. It's something I'm interested to try if I meet a top who is into it and I trust to take care of me through the experience.
All the diverse descriptions of fisting in this thread are more or less accurate. It's intense and it does send the bottom to another sexual plane of pleasure. When I've topped it's about getting really inside someone to an extremely intimate level but pumped up by the power you have over their feelings. Your arm becomes a cock that never goes limp and is bigger than huge.

The last quote above is so true too. It's not just about intimacy it's about trust! The bottom has to totally trust his top - with his life.

It's also best done by working up from a very slow gradual entry to a more rhythmic sliding before attempting the thrusting or punch fisting seen in movies. People like Matthieu Paris are professionals who get fisted almost daily and have complete control over their muscles down there. This is not for the novice. However even the first time can be a total trip with enough patience, poppers and lube. And as someone said above, it's even better with a cock to suck on at the same time.

A good FF session can last for hours if done right and another great thing about it is a good bottom can also make a good top because he / she can imagine what's going on inside there, so it's a good flip/flop sport.

Finally, with practice and a flexible physique you can fist yourself, so you can play solo too!

The major downside? Not enough available partners willing to try it.
 
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