Fisting?

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  1. ThisSpace4Rent

    ThisSpace4Rent New Member

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    Okay, I know, crude subject, but bear with me :)

    I was trying calculating my BMI today (body mass index or somesuch) to see how far I was off from my ideal weight. You're supposed to subtract or add 10% if you have a small or large frame respectively.

    For men, you determine if you have a small or large frame by measuring the circumference of your wrist. 5.5" - 6.5" is small frame, 6.5" - 7.5" is medium frame, and 7.5"+ is large frame.

    And that got me thinking that as penises go, with 5" girth being average, that a guy with a small frame probably has wrists that are along the same numbers as a guy with a thick one.

    So that got me thinking about the posts here from women who've said that sex is only good with a bigger / thicker penis. And for those women, I was curious if fisting was something you'd tried before, and how it stacked up against sex (with a large penis).

    Is it in the same neighborhood? Is it too vastly different to compare considering that in one case you're having sex and in the other there's just someone with a hand stuck up there?

    Hopefully I don't sound like too much of an idiot for asking. It seems like something not many women would have tried (for good reason), but for those who did try it I was just kinda curious about how it measured up.
     
  2. Tristessa

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    Out of curiousity, I've tried it with partners a few times. It doesn't work. I guess it literally DOES work, I just can't manage making it work. No matter how much relaxation, time, and lube was involved, I haven't yet met anyone that could come close to getting their hand to fit. Three fingers=max.
     
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    I have a bit of a kink for this fetish...in giving that is:wink:...It is an extremely enjoyable experience for the receiver as well as the giver. At first it can be a very daunting thought, attitude is the key.

    Communication, patience, trust, and lots of lube....to feel a woman orgasm on the end of your cock, your tongue is a beautiful experience, to feel a woman orgasm while you have her in your hand (so to speak) is incredible...I have asked what are the feelings, emotions that where felt from the other end. Intense pleasure, multiple orgasms, spiritual...There is never any trouble with her or I orgasming during intercourse directly after....It feels great...I had better stop writing, this subject gets me going...

    Now and then as a bit of fun I lay some objects out on the bed, maybe a costume or two for her to choose from, a couple of toys vibrator etc... hook the ties up to the bed posts and lay them out, a rubber glove and the lube....and ask her to choose her pleasure, no hint as to the ones that are chosen:tongue::wink::biggrin1:
     
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    mmmmmmmm What a wonderful playtime activity. I love being fisted by my husband. My husband has a 11 inch diameter fist and a 6 1/2inch diameter wrist. Now typically when we do this wether I am on my hands and knees or on my back it feels great. He starts with three fingers and within a matter of one minute his fist is in and buried past his wrist. I have multiple orgasm and he usually has to ask for his hand back. We use almond oil because we find it to be the best lube ever. What really drives me wild is when he slides his penis in afterwards and I love clamping down on him just to show him that he hasn't stretched anything out.
     
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    Well ,It certainly seems to aid in being able to accommodate a larger penis.
    I hurt for a long time but I think it is because we were all drunk and the person got too rough.
     
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