Which of our senses are most important to you, in sex ?
I think on this site there's a bias toward the visual. What a penis looks like, naked or clothed, hard or soft...
But I think other things matter. Smell doesn't get much of a mention, because overall the modern world is too sanitised, but the smells of different body parts are often laced with pheromones... Chemical signals.
And touch is clearly important. Sounds - soft moans or "dirty" talk.
I think at it's best, sex opens ways for minds to form a kind of psychic link. Directly sharing something, and influencing each other.
How is the experience of sex, for you ?
If you want the simple version - lights on / lights off ? - on a beach / in a bed ? - moaning and talking, or silent as a library ?
I think on this site there's a bias toward the visual. What a penis looks like, naked or clothed, hard or soft...
But I think other things matter. Smell doesn't get much of a mention, because overall the modern world is too sanitised, but the smells of different body parts are often laced with pheromones... Chemical signals.
And touch is clearly important. Sounds - soft moans or "dirty" talk.
I think at it's best, sex opens ways for minds to form a kind of psychic link. Directly sharing something, and influencing each other.
How is the experience of sex, for you ?
If you want the simple version - lights on / lights off ? - on a beach / in a bed ? - moaning and talking, or silent as a library ?