Flaccid Appearance - Pre Or Post Stimulation?

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This is a question for my fellow gents.

Do you find that your flaccid penis is bigger before masturbation (or sex I guess) or AFTER masturbation?

I’m a textbook “grower” with an increase of sometimes 5 inches from flaccid to erect. Have really big balls and my flaccid size can vary greatly.

As a result of this, I have no hang ups about my performance or appearance in the bedroom, but some instances in public can cause a bit of anxiety (locker rooms, beach, etc).

Have any of you found an optimal time when your flaccid penis is at its biggest?
 

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I'm a grower as well and in my observation, my penis definitely will stay bigger for a good while after sex and or masturbation, kind of having like a chub or semi but for me a semi is almost a complete erection which it is not. My personal assumption would be it gets that way from prolonged or intense sexual activity. I like the after effects of the chub, unfortunately that state only last for an hour or 2 at the most.
 

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I get unbelievably erect during sex (more so than masturbation), my penis then takes a while to deflate and definitely hangs bigger for a while. This is kinda cool because my morning routine (well, before COVID) is wake up - sex - pool - work, so I look impressive changing into my swimming gear in the locker room.
 

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I rarely wake up wth a morning hard on, but quite often when I get up, my penis is soft and warm from being in bed. Looking at a good and full hang in the mirror first thing in the morning is a nice way of starting the day!
After sex or masturbation, it depends. If I've had a long and intense session (sex or bating/edging) I can stay hard or at least well fluffed up for maybe 5 minutes. It's good being a man
 

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I rarely wake up wth a morning hard on, but quite often when I get up, my penis is soft and warm from being in bed. Looking at a good and full hang in the mirror first thing in the morning is a nice way of starting the day!
After sex or masturbation, it depends. If I've had a long and intense session (sex or bating/edging) I can stay hard or at least well fluffed up for maybe 5 minutes. It's good being a man


Not only is it good being a man - it is the only way to be :)

And I too enjoy seeing my hanger in the mirror in the morning. Which is why I love moving about naked in the flat while making coffee etc., dong dangling and bouncing between my legs.
 

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I get unbelievably erect during sex (more so than masturbation), my penis then takes a while to deflate and definitely hangs bigger for a while. This is kinda cool because my morning routine (well, before COVID) is wake up - sex - pool - work, so I look impressive changing into my swimming gear in the locker room.


Sounds like a nice strategy. I suspect you cannot wait for pre-Covid conditions to return, right? :)