when i get a nice big flaccid it hangs out too far and is not flush with my balls. how can i get it to hang straight down more and be flush with my balls?
When mines' soft it's pretty soft. I always wish it would stick out more, but then it's semi. Some guys show a curved semi even when flaccid. Learn to enjoy your anatomy. Some guys show more than others. Wearing baggy or pleated pants may help.
Some guys flaccid is naturally semi-tumescent. I had a roommate--little guy too. 5"4". He shows a noticeable bulge all the time. Also looks bigger because of his stature, but it was big. I caught him jerking once or twice. Marathon jerker that one. It was between 7" and 8" erect, and fat.Your "flaccid" hang is probably a partial erection. If your suspensory ligs are intact, then the more erect your penis is the more it's going to point upwards (unlss your erection hangs a different way).