" ???Flattery, Envy, or Hitting on me"

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  1. Imported

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    studboysouth: I'd like for you guys (and ladies too) to give me your opinion about this guy I recently met. I am wondering if he is hitting on me or what.

    Recently at my gym, I noticed this guy who worked there would always come into the shower area when I was showering. If I he didn't see me come in the shower area, he would never come in that area. I've seen him looking at me a few times in the shower, but he never said anything at first and I didn't think anything about it. About a week later, he starts talking to me and being really friendly. He is cool, so I started talking more to him. Shortly, a lot of our conversations turned to sex (him asking me about fucking, how much I fuck, how I get off, etc.). He dates this girl who is pretty hot and whenever she is around, he doesn't talk like this. I've noticed that when we talk, he looks not only in my eyes, but looks at my face and body like he is examining it. One day he was in the shower and I walked by naked. He got a good close-up view of my dick. He commented that he had a really small cock and when he gets dressed, he makes sure you can't see his cock. A little time passes, and he starts "playfully" hitting me on the face, grabbing my arm and squeezing hit. So I started pinching his nips. So one day, out of the clear blue, he comes in the shower area and makes a comment about how big my dick is. From that point on, he would talk about my dick a lot. We hung out one particular night and both had a few drinks. He started talking about how he was a big perv and he knew I was one too, how he lost his sexual drive after his first girlfriend, but he couldn't explain why. He kept telling me how popular I would be with chicks b'cause of my big dick. Later, we went to his place and he pops in a porn with no hesitation. I asked him what would happen is someone walked in on him j/o, and he said "nothing" While watching the porn, he kept talking about how big the dude's dick was (in the movie). It got late and I left. I saw him the next day and he was smiling and told me how he j/o after I left that night. While talking, he kept grabbing his crotch, squeezing it, etc. He does this a lot when we talk.

    So wsup? Is this just a case of him looking up to me because of my big unit, is this penis envy, or is he hitting on me. What do you think?

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    Lovembig: Studboy, this guy HAS to be trying to get with you. Not only that, this guy sounds borderline obsessive. Reading what all happened in your post reminded me of the movie Fatal Attraction. For someone who has a girlfriend he sure spends alot of time in the shower. A guy with penis envy might make just ONE comment about your large package. And when you went back to his place and he put in a big dick movie, Im sure he was waiting for you to take out your own big dick and make a move. :p
     
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    7x6andchg: Studboy-

    I have to agree with lovembig - I think he's hitting on you, and quite heavily, if I may say so myself from your post.

    There might be some penis envy in there - but I'd say it's 80/20 or 90/10. I say that only because he mentioned that he had a small dick to you...
     
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    Yes,
    he was hitting on you.
    SOunds like he has some major curiosity about
    guys and their big equipment.
     
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    HotRodRich69: um i think u should getta restraining order. If he's like that now, he'll get even worse.lol laidhers
     
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    AnonyMs: Sweetie, ifyou do not recognize that sort of behavior as someone hitting on you, what do they have to do? Wear a sandwich board? Put in neon lights? Put it on the side of the Goodyear blimp? Def hitting on behavior.
     
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    Let's see...

    • Talks about sex constantly
    • Cops a feel
    • Pops in a porno as soon as you get there
    • Obsessed with size
    • Tells you when he masturbates
    He's a stalker.
     
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    parra10: If I were you I would fuck his woman.
     
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    H8Monga: That is creepy for sure. It might be all of the above but I don't think he wants to do anything with you. He might be leading up to wanting to watch you do his girl or a girl... seems like some small guys sometimes like that.

    Not I... if someone touched my girl... I'll turn him into an instant woman!
     
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    HotBoiLA: definitely hitting on you...if he's cute maybe you should go for it
     
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    gigantikok: this is exactly why i've always avoided showering areas in gyms. No stalkers for me, thank you.
     
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    Sounds like you two are thinking about dancing but no one is taking the lead. He wants to dance in the worst way (he is hitting on you). You seem to be saying you might like to dance and he tries different ways to see if you will.
    Dance or sit this one out but let him know by either encouraging or discouraging advances.
    I didn't get the idea he was stalking. If you put out the dont go any further indicators and he keeps up the pressure then you have a concern.
     
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    sammygirly: Uh yeah - hitting on you LOL.
     
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