Also would you tell the truth if asked whether you had one? Does anyone other than your partner know you own one? I used to find it difficult admitting to masturbation in my early teens but it stopped becoming an issue after we gradually realised that pretty much every guy does it. I still would not be comfortable telling anyone other than a boyfriend that I owned one though. Do you think there will come a day when owning a male sex toy becomes a non-issue too, especially among straight men?