Fleshlight From Your Girlfriend

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  1. MickeyLee

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    after too much thinking about where to post this i settle on Sex With a Large Penis. it could fall under Relationships but i'm also seeking a bit of umm customer satisfaction and preference feedback. open to anyone who cares to reply.

    would you be okay with your girlfriend giving you a fleshlight as a gift? or would that be crossing some guy boundary i'm completely unaware of?

    my boy and i are fans of the mutual masturbation play. he travels too much with his job so cam-ing is a nice way to keep in touch. he's not shy, and is pretty open to most things sexually, so i don't really see a problem with giving him the fleshlight. i just don't want to offend or freak him out.

    any suggestions on what to buy. right now i am looking at purchasing the original, the wonder wave and maybe the vortex? yes? no? good god woman what were you thinking!?

    mouth, lady, butt or mini maid? one of each? stealth? too many choices. so menfolk if you are so inclined let me know what you think.

    just to clear it up, this is toy for him and his own personal joy. if he lets me join in all the better, but that not expected. dykes/girls are pretty much sex toy millionaires and we like them. is seems mean spirited to leave the boys out.

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    A gift like that would be totally fine with me... Although I'm not sure id use it too much, unless I don't get to see my girl that much...
     
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    I would be more then happy if I was your bf!!! Fleshlight is just a way to anjoy masturbation on a higher level and u can't compare that with sex (although I never had sex), because sex in the interaction between two persons (or more for who wants). The fleshlight is an object like a dildo for women (or men if they want).
     
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    For me, I would be afraid that my girlfriend would FIND my Fleshlight. If she GAVE me one I'd be shocked. lol

    OK as far as choice, haven't tried the vortex. But the speed bump is my favorite. It's really similar to the Stamina Training Unit. aka, when your bf puts his penis in a speed bump/STU, his eyes will roll back, and he will fuck it until he cums, likely in less than a minute. It's, as far as I'm concerned, the ultimate pleasure a penis can experience. But it may not be too fun for you if he keeps cumming in less than a minute every time you guys start up a cam session.

    As far as the original goes, it's nice, but once he tries the speed bump/stu or wonder wave or the vortex, it will gather dust in the back of his closet. The others are MUCH more intense.

    If you guys are camming, you might want to get a clear fleshlight. I love it because I can see my big dick thrusting into heavenly, wet, warm plastic goo, and plus it magnifies it and makes my dick look huge. Plus, you would actually be able to see his dick in it if you were on cam, seeing what it's doing to his cock. It's really nice.

    As far as oriface goes, I prefer the stealth, simply because I don't want to associate a person with the sex toy. And if one of my buds finds it they might not get it right away. lol But they are all the same, they all give ridiculous pleasure when you sink your fat juicy cock into them. lol

    You're so nice to think about your bf's pleasure by the way. God bless you! The penis angels are singing.
     
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    The gift that keeps on giving! Perfect for Christmas!
     
  7. MickeyLee

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    thank you to the people who replied. i might be freak but i am a freak who gives good presents.

    95L - sometimes our schedules totally conflict but even when i'm around sometimes a boy just needs his boy time. and sometimes i like to watch.

    PJ - exactly what i think about a fleshlight, no different than a dildo, vibrator or any other sex toy. maybe a bit harder to hide under your pillow.

    Bobbie - you are the heaps of info man! i have to admit the way you describe the STU/speed bump might give my girlie parts a bit of an inferiority complex. still i have faith in my abilities and if he starts taking the damn thing out to dinner i will put it in the garbage disposal. j/k.

    HTX - i love the fleshjack butt. it looks a little like a giant pink garbanzo bean.

    the final three are: STU since it's case only i figured it's a good starter unit (only available in pink/mocha?). with the 3 for 2 deal i'm going with the votex, the wonder wave and the speed bump. any thing i should change or anyone have other recommendations?

    i do have one question about the ice fleshlights. i know from hand feel they are a bit sticky, almost like a jelly toy, does the hand feel translate into a difference when you use the fleshlight? also read a few reviews were people had a problem with the ice turning yellow.

    if the ice is as much fun as it looks buying the second case is so not an issue.

    i realize this was a very odd question to ask, and a very personal thing to ask people to randomly throw out the details on. between this thread and others here i feel like a walking fleshlight info center. again, thank you much.

    Upone - i hope he likes it. i just have to make sure this present gets opened in private. that would a serious awkward Xmas moment.

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    I loved the Super Ribbed! It's pure heaven. The Wonder Wave would be better if he has a prominent glans and he's pretty long.

    Many guys worry that their girlfriends will feel neglected or jealous if they're discovered to be masturbating. Some women really do take offense that men feel the need to masturbate even when they're in a sexually active relationship. That you not only approve of it but are willing to give him a Fleshlight is just fantastic! That shows a rare level of understanding and confidence. You won't find a lot of men buying their wives or gfs the most realistic 10" heated and vibrating dildo on the market and the Fleshlight is like that for a man.

    It's a fantastic present for him. He's a lucky man.
     
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    Jason

    i would me freaked out if my boyfriend wasn't masturbating on the regular. i mean it's his body, granted i have an all access visitor's pass, limiting any expression of his sexuality seems too possessive/unrealistic for words. inside the boundaries of our relationship the only expectation is open communications and monogamy.

    masturbation is so not the same as sex. not on any level other than well getting off. so i couldn't compare the two or feel threatened by his habits. the only time i have been annoyed is when he used my really expensive hair conditioner as lube. easy fix, bottle of silicone lube in the shower. a tip to the ladies out there.

    i love him. i love his penis:tongue:, they should both be has happy as possible.

    back to the super ribbed, he's is on the longer side. with umm flared glands. he's also uncut. i should have asked if that makes a difference with any of the sleeves. so the wave might be a better choice for him. thank you for sharing.

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    Very welcome :smile:.

    Yeah, the wave won't be as intense as a ribbed however, if he's uncut, then you may want to give him a regular sleeve as well. When I shopped mine at fleshlight's own website, they had a 3 deal where you can get three inserts for a big discount. I got the wonder wave, which does a real number on the glans, the super ribbed, which not only stimulates the glans really well but the frenulum and mucosa, and the ultra tight (because I'm pretty small and very narrow) which isn't as directly stimulating, but is really nice when you want a nice long stroke. The Ultra Tight is tight for me and I'm 4" around at my thickest so if you're beau is girthy, I'd suggest nothing smaller than the Super Tight. The material has a lot more give than it appears it would.

    There's no reason you can't get one or two inserts and then give more for other occasions. Believe me, they will ALL be very welcomed!
     
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    i'm starting with 4 sleeves. the STU isn't part of the 3 for 2 deal, so it's a stand alone.

    the 3 for 2 deal is too sweet to resist. i'm just trying to narrow it down to three. i'm not sure the vortex is available on that deal. i need to check. ideally the sleeves should have a buckle his knees, leave him dazed and thoroughly dusted effect. hmm if the vortex isn't part of the deal maybe a lower impact sleeve is a good idea.

    he's umm big all around. sorta why i found this site. there is ever so much to learn about the penis. most of it has been completely wonderful. :smile:

    my boyfriend might be the imelda marcos of fleshlight sleeves by his birthday.


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    xmas shopping is done!

    final order
    1 STU lady pink with black case.

    votex wasn't available with the 3 for 2 offer. so.

    1 wonder wave pink lady.
    1 super ribbed pink mouth.

    1 original ice stealth with a separate ice case

    to repeat thank you so much for all the feedback. ever so helpful with settling the "you're boyfriend will think you are strange or will be offended nerves".

    hopefully his fleshlight will be something new and exciting for him, just a completely unique experience and sensation.

    ML

    here's to penis angels getting their wings.
     
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    Mickey, wow wish I had a girl like you, you are so open about all of it and feel it is good he masturbates even though he is with you. I think it's hot.

    I do not like the original at all, it has no places for the lube to stay, so you end up using 10 tons of it and it is hard to get off on it. I have a speed bump, a vortex and a wonderwave which are much better than the original, the lube actually stays in the sleeve. But I guess everyone is different.

    I think the ice is a good idea, I have only had mine for a week, so no yellow yet, but I think if you like to watcht that could be a very nice turn on for you when he cums inside of it.
     
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    If you were getting it for him and then stopping having sex with him, I would say that is going to be a problem....

    However, if you two like mutual masturbation, then that is cool. Furthermore, cool if he can take it while away.

    Since he is open, I don't see it being weird or backfiring.
     
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    Oh, and I liked mine when I had it.

    The only thing that pissed me off was the cleanup. But then again, I am kind of a germaphobe.
     
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    PK - no no no. i would have to be in traction in a coma and heavily medicated in four point restraints to ever think about NOT having sex with my boyfriend. he in fact might be the only man on the planet to ever ask "can we just cuddle?"

    my boy should be getting every bit of pleasure he can out of any type of sex he's having. with me or without me. masturbation shouldn't be something he uses only as stress relief/ pressure valve, he should enjoy it as fully as possible. the fleshlight just made sense to me as a way to heighten the moment i guess.

    on the selfish greedy girl side, i so love to watch him get off. the idea of watching him play with the fleshlight is a huge turn on. that's why i went with an ice option, that is one view of him cumming i wouldn't ever be able to see without the *wonders* of modern technology.

    my new issue of endless neurosis is how to give him the fleshlight. wrapped under a tree seems a little odd. how in the hell do you spring a sex toy on a guy?

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    Hmmmm, maybe you could introduce it during sex. Or put it on the night stand and say honey hand me that big flashlight I just bought! hahaha.

    Seriously you could blind fold him, lube up his cock, lube up the fleshlight and then pretend you are about ready to fuck him but actually use the fleshlight, use it in your play.
     
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