Fleshlight owners fess up....are they really as great as some people say?

[tampa_hi]

As everyone has mentioned, it’s a bitch to keep clean. However, I have the Stamina Training sleeve and it’s intense. All of those little bumps rubbing your glans make it a challenge to control your load!

 

[ColoradoGuy]

... Aside from the prep and clean up, what I really don't like is that someone might be going through my stuff some day and find it. Maybe I'll die unexpectedly and my parents will have to clean up my apartment and find my things. It wouldn't really matter, but I don't like the thought of that. ...

"In death, there are no secrets." So... I counsel my younger friends to have a designated buddy: someone they trust who has access to their home or apartment to address this very issue. Your buddy should know where your sex toys, porn, illicit drugs (and anything else you might find embarrassing for your parents or next-of-kin to find) are and he/she should remove it upon your demise. When I was in the military, everybody had a 'go' bag and most guys had a buddy who knew what to do if they didn't come back from Iraq. I was the mortuary officer for a young airman that was killed in combat in my unit and I wish he had had a designated buddy to help him out because the rules for mortuary officers required us to inventory everything found so it could be returned to the service member's family. Most of us would quietly dispose of things we were fairly sure no family needed to know about or see (and were typically of no monetary value) but when I was performing my duties for this young man, I had a goodie-two-shoes assisting me and he insisted we catalogue the ladies lingerie we found in his personal effects. Hopefully the family assumed they belonged to a girlfriend he missed and they had never met instead of being the preferred undergarments for this young man when he was off-duty (which clearly they were). Anyway, voice of experience: think about finding a buddy and agreeing to perform this valuable service for each other.

 

[HotThroatLA]

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Oh hot daddy, I wish I could do that for you instead!

 

[Pullinit2]

I love mine!

 

[Pullinit2]

I bragged to my buddy how good it felt when ideas visiting him
While I was gone from his house for a bit he went into my duffle bag n found it.
15 minutes later he blew his load twice in it!

 

[UniversityJock]

Solid endorsement lol

 

[Pullinit2]

I forgot to mention that my wife bought it for me!

 

[HotThroatLA]

I love mine! View attachment 971137 View attachment 971137

I'd love to do that for you!

 

[deleted81224]

I've had one for over a year and have probably used it less than 10 times. It feels different which can be cool sometimes, but I think the living flesh of my hand is better and without so much prep and clean up. Still, its fun to do something different and the anticipation from planning for it can be pretty cool.

Aside from the prep and clean up, what I really don't like is that someone might be going through my stuff some day and find it. Maybe I'll die unexpectedly and my parents will have to clean up my apartment and find my things. It wouldn't really matter, but I don't like the thought of that.

I also think there is a different stigma about men having sex toys compared with women. I don't think anyone thinks of women as being weird or pathetic if they own a dildo, but I think there are a lot of people who feel that way about a man who owns a fleshlight

Have to say that I am pretty much with this. Since Xmas, I haven't used it much - needs planning ahead to allow time to clean / dry and the experience is over pretty quickly. I have used it a bit more as an edging device using just pre-cum and then making sure that I shoot outside of it. Sometimes I treat myself and then let go fully but this needs planning. I also am mindful of the device being discovered

 

[deleted81224]

I love all mine !! Also have a fucking machine for handsfree fun !! KIK me if ya have any questions my username is PIERCED_N_HUNG !!

F4cking hell, how much did that little lot cost and do you put a blindfold on and play "pin the fleshlight" to choose which one to use!?

 

[1141702]

Fleshlight are amazing but keep it CLEAN. I've ruined 2. Lol

 

[1141702]

"In death, there are no secrets." So... I counsel my younger friends to have a designated buddy: someone they trust who has access to their home or apartment to address this very issue. Your buddy should know where your sex toys, porn, illicit drugs (and anything else you might find embarrassing for your parents or next-of-kin to find) are and he/she should remove it upon your demise. When I was in the military, everybody had a 'go' bag and most guys had a buddy who knew what to do if they didn't come back from Iraq. I was the mortuary officer for a young airman that was killed in combat in my unit and I wish he had had a designated buddy to help him out because the rules for mortuary officers required us to inventory everything found so it could be returned to the service member's family. Most of us would quietly dispose of things we were fairly sure no family needed to know about or see (and were typically of no monetary value) but when I was performing my duties for this young man, I had a goodie-two-shoes assisting me and he insisted we catalogue the ladies lingerie we found in his personal effects. Hopefully the family assumed they belonged to a girlfriend he missed and they had never met instead of being the preferred undergarments for this young man when he was off-duty (which clearly they were). Anyway, voice of experience: think about finding a buddy and agreeing to perform this valuable service for each other.

"Even in death, people have fucks to give."

Lol, kinda funny. The mourning process for a loved one, petistolizes(sp) the dead and you are far to worried to give a shit about the mundane trivialities. Was that way for me, at least.

 

[wildcat16]

My dorm roommate showed up with one a couple years ago. We enjoyed it..................a lot.
Since it was his and he was good enough to share the fun, and cleaning it does take a bit of time, i just used a condom. It may not have been as intense as what it seemed to him, but is was pretty damn good even with a condom on.
Alas, new to the toy and over eager to use it and not as eager once we were spent to take care of it, we had to toss it after a few months. But, at 50 cents a load even, we got his moneys worth out of it.
It doesn't replace a good vagina, nor a firm grip from your hand when needed, but it is just as good and a nice change of pace.

So, with more research on use and care and going into it with the mindset of getting more than our money worth, and armed with his "no questions asked" credit card his dad supplied him with, he ordered us another one with 2 sleeves. No matter how much vagina that is available, it is still a nice fun option.

Clean up doesn't have to be a pain, lots of warm/hot water after use, wrap loosely in a microfiber towel til next time. Use their cleaner every now and then and their renewing powder.

As far as lube, if you can start with a large amount of spit it wont dry out as fast. I don't use the cap for the other end at all, instead i start easing in and out of it with just the lube of my spit, then put a little lube in the other open end. From trial and error we like the KY liquid.

It does get the job done more quickly than about any other way. I like to work it til i cant' take it anymore and am about to blow, then just stop and lay it down, dick still in it. Whether slow work up or fast i like to jerk it off just before i cum and let my dick pulse til it shoots up like a volcano. Then my goal is to be able to stand the sensitivity to push it back down over my dick in its ultra sensitive state without passing out. LOL. I'm getting pretty good at it.

 

[sim_8701]

Video proof in my gallery... :biggrin1:

Love to see the vid man I can seem to see it

 

[visorkols]

I have the STU & I can say that it feels better than jerking off but nothing beats the real thing especially bareback.

As other have said the maintenance and clean up are a bigger pain than just jerking off, especially if you live with roommates. If you live by yourself or only 1 other person whom youre somewhat open with then its not such a bad deal. The suction on it is good but sometimes way too much. I feel like the first 1-2" is wasted as you dont really feel the texture pattern much at all so id reccommend it if you have a longer cock. Id say 7"+ would be ideal for it. I honestly use it more now on a night after ive had sex and im home but im still horny and want to fuck.

 

[Emm56152]

Have had one for a while and don’t use it all the time maybe like once a month just cause it’s pretty involved with the cleanup but it is a nice feeling different from just you hand but wouldn’t recommend over using it

 

[919507]

Haven’t used one but would like to try the super tight one to see how long I would last.

 

[120216]

I bought one and I have to say I'm not as impressed as I thought I'd be.
I mean, it feels good, yeah. But so does jerking regularly. Except with the fleshlight, you need to use lube and it's a lot of mess and cleanup required and honestly after blowing I like to just be done and go to sleep. Also, I think something might be wrong with mine because the sleeve is not held in place. Even when I snap the retainer ring on, the sleeve never holds up for long. After 9 or 10 strokes, I have to push the sleeve and the retainer ring back in place, and it gets so annoying...

 

[1141702]

I bought one and I have to say I'm not as impressed as I thought I'd be.
I mean, it feels good, yeah. But so does jerking regularly. Except with the fleshlight, you need to use lube and it's a lot of mess and cleanup required and honestly after blowing I like to just be done and go to sleep. Also, I think something might be wrong with mine because the sleeve is not held in place. Even when I snap the retainer ring on, the sleeve never holds up for long. After 9 or 10 strokes, I have to push the sleeve and the retainer ring back in place, and it gets so annoying...

That is not normal operation.

 

[Jay99998]

They are incredible. Some guy blew a load in mine and then I used it on myself. That’s his load