Okay I finally got the fleshlight becuase like everyone has one and says how great it is etc. Well my not so large pecker had trouble penatrating it and I thought it would loosen up after the first few days. It has not. Anyone else have this problem? I have a large mushroom head, but this feels like an overzealous school jacking a guy off for the first time. I used lots of lube , but this virgin thing is super tight! HELP!