Hmmm. . . no vids, but this last year the squeeze and I have developed a fondness for adding a Fleshlight to our usual repetoire. We have two: one for our own personal use and a second one to pass around during small, friendly get-togethers. It took a while, but we've become rather fond of them. My squeeze is great at giving me head and letting me fuck him, but there are those times his jaw starts to dislocate or his ass is still too sore from our last adventure. That's when I've learned to enjoy locking lips and playing tonsil hockey as he artfully pumps me to the edge for an hour or so until I'm ready to pass out. Great toys for those of us with open minds.